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21 Oct 2011, 2:40 pm

I know Dana Marnane is following this thread.

I have emailed her suggesting she change the quote in her bio.

She is a lovely woman, and while I can't promise a change, I can assure you that she will carefully consider it.


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21 Oct 2011, 3:07 pm

Dana is working on making the requested changes right now. I will post the link when she is finished.


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22 Oct 2011, 2:10 pm

They claim to be a support site but their site reeks of negativity. By their actions they show no respect whatsoever for autistic persons. I can't find any sympathy for them or people that actively support them. I think the reason that they are discussed and tolerated on some levels is because they are the ones with serious money $$. Every other organization is a far distant second.
Unfortunately, a lot of uneducated average people get their information from them and don't understand that, as a minimum, there is a controversy in the Autism community.

Anyway their lack of support towards neurodiversity shows a grave lack of respect to autistic persons, but then they have $$$ so I guess some cooperation may be necessary.



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22 Oct 2011, 2:23 pm

Tambourine-Man wrote:
I know Dana Marnane is following this thread.

I have emailed her suggesting she change the quote in her bio.

She is a lovely woman, and while I can't promise a change, I can assure you that she will carefully consider it.


So you are a part of Autism Speaks then it seems.



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22 Oct 2011, 2:26 pm

jackbus01 wrote:
They claim to be a support site but their site reeks of negativity. By their actions they show no respect whatsoever for autistic persons. I can't find any sympathy for them or people that actively support them. I think the reason that they are discussed and tolerated on some levels is because they are the ones with serious money $$. Every other organization is a far distant second.
Unfortunately, a lot of uneducated average people get their information from them and don't understand that, as a minimum, there is a controversy in the Autism community.

Anyway their lack of support towards neurodiversity shows a grave lack of respect to autistic persons, but then they have $$$ so I guess some cooperation may be necessary.


This is a characterization borne out by the evidence we already have and I can look on Autism Speaks' website in days to check out if Holman is telling the truth or not.



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22 Oct 2011, 2:30 pm

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Good point Myth. Sadly and strangely enough, Autism Speaks did not seem to be aware of higher functioning autistics in the earlier days.

Now they are. The responses to my articles have certainly revealed a wealth of parents who love their children unconditionally and only want to see them have better opportunities.

We can't just attack, because our message remains small. There are a lot of parent-haters on these boards. Our parents were uninformed. Let's make things better for the autistic children of the future, by spreading a balanced message about the realities of autism.

Here are some words I think autistics are offended by...


Cure
Epidemic
Disease
Infection
Tragedy


I'm sure there are many more.


It is not just the words that are offensive, it is the entire premise. You take a group of people that happen to be autistic and instead of helping them and doing research that could help help them, you tell them they are broken beyond hope and they are a plague on society.
I actually looked at support and research groups websites for conditions ranging from mental health disorders to cancers--I have never seem so much negativity as I do on Autism Speaks.
Autism Speaks--well they don't speak for the entire community.
Puzzle piece ribbon--so autistics are broken and missing a piece.
A recent campaign--"Light it blue!" really blue the color of depression, unbelievable! Even breast cancer gets a cheery pink.

Sadly nothing short of a major overhaul and rebranding of themselves will fix it. I think the Autism community needs to cooperate at some base level since this is the autism organization with serious money $$.



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22 Oct 2011, 2:35 pm

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The problem with autism self-advocacy is the black and white thinking that comes part and parcel with an autism diagnosis.

Speak for yourself.

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Many so-called self-advocates seem to think they are characters in an autistic version of "Star Wars."

Speculation fallacy.

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This is not a cut and dry issue. I may be able to advocate for myself, but that does not mean I have the right to speak for the autistic population as a whole.

Anyone has the right to talk on the behalf of a group if they are correct in making a certain assertion.

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Autism is a poorly defined diagnosis. To the medical community at large, autism is a collection of deficits which occur in various degrees within certain members of society. For self-advocates, autism is an essential aspect of their personality. But what is autism?

Autism is merely a vague diagnostic label. Is there one kind of autism? Six kinds? 37? We don't know. At least 30 genes have been associated with autism. There are doubtlessly hundreds more.

This is all true.

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Some autistics are genuinely miserable. Severe cases may not survive their autism.

That's a horrific suggestion that points to something that isn't true. Nobody has died of autism. Get a grip Tambourine.

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If autism is an identity which someone embraces, then let them. For others, autism means severe physical and mental pain, and a complete lack of communication and self-sufficiency.

Which much of the time is foistered on them by a crowd of unthinking, silly and essentially contrictive society. Yes, of course, it's our fault much of the time.

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Do I want them to be cured? Well, I would like them to be out of pain.

Do I want to be cured? I have no idea what that means, and let me let you in on a little secret - no one else does either.

I do know that I don't want to be cured of anything because there is nothing to cure.

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We are working with different definitions of the word autism. For those who see autism as a collection of distressing symptoms, the idea of a cure fills them with hope.

There will never be one single autism cure, though there may, one day, be CURES; cures for bowel problems, for self-injurious behavior, for nutrition intolerance, for seizures... for many of the distressing symptoms associated with some forms of autism.

You earlier assert that nobody knows now you're battening down the hatches and saying that there are cures. Yay for doublethink!

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Make no mistake, while all autistics should be valued, many of the medical issues associated with autism are severely distressing.

Except most of them aren't even that clear or indeed well defined.

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If you do not suffer from these more distressing aspects, well, then good for you. Don't stand in the way of treatment for those who do.

That assertion wasn't made by anyone here.


If anyone reading this happens to be a plucky, self-advocating Aspie who opposes all genetic research and thinks "cure" is a dirty word, please, watch some of these videos...

http://www.google.com/search?q=YouTube+ ... ent=safari

There is no cure. There may be treatment. People like the guy in these videos desperately need better treatment.[/quote]



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22 Oct 2011, 3:44 pm

Gedrene wrote:
Tambourine-Man wrote:
The problem with autism self-advocacy is the black and white thinking that comes part and parcel with an autism diagnosis.

Speak for yourself.

Tambourine-Man wrote:
Many so-called self-advocates seem to think they are characters in an autistic version of "Star Wars."

Speculation fallacy.

Tambourine-Man wrote:
This is not a cut and dry issue. I may be able to advocate for myself, but that does not mean I have the right to speak for the autistic population as a whole.

Anyone has the right to talk on the behalf of a group if they are correct in making a certain assertion.

Tambourine-Man wrote:
Autism is a poorly defined diagnosis. To the medical community at large, autism is a collection of deficits which occur in various degrees within certain members of society. For self-advocates, autism is an essential aspect of their personality. But what is autism?

Autism is merely a vague diagnostic label. Is there one kind of autism? Six kinds? 37? We don't know. At least 30 genes have been associated with autism. There are doubtlessly hundreds more.

This is all true.

Tambourine-Man wrote:
Some autistics are genuinely miserable. Severe cases may not survive their autism.

That's a horrific suggestion that points to something that isn't true. Nobody has died of autism. Get a grip Tambourine.

Tambourine-Man wrote:
If autism is an identity which someone embraces, then let them. For others, autism means severe physical and mental pain, and a complete lack of communication and self-sufficiency.

Which much of the time is foistered on them by a crowd of unthinking, silly and essentially contrictive society. Yes, of course, it's our fault much of the time.

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Do I want them to be cured? Well, I would like them to be out of pain.

Do I want to be cured? I have no idea what that means, and let me let you in on a little secret - no one else does either.

I do know that I don't want to be cured of anything because there is nothing to cure.

Tambourine-Man wrote:
We are working with different definitions of the word autism. For those who see autism as a collection of distressing symptoms, the idea of a cure fills them with hope.

There will never be one single autism cure, though there may, one day, be CURES; cures for bowel problems, for self-injurious behavior, for nutrition intolerance, for seizures... for many of the distressing symptoms associated with some forms of autism.

You earlier assert that nobody knows now you're battening down the hatches and saying that there are cures. Yay for doublethink!

Tambourine-Man wrote:
Make no mistake, while all autistics should be valued, many of the medical issues associated with autism are severely distressing.

Except most of them aren't even that clear or indeed well defined.

Tambourine-Man wrote:
If you do not suffer from these more distressing aspects, well, then good for you. Don't stand in the way of treatment for those who do.

That assertion wasn't made by anyone here.


If anyone reading this happens to be a plucky, self-advocating Aspie who opposes all genetic research and thinks "cure" is a dirty word, please, watch some of these videos...

http://www.google.com/search?q=YouTube+ ... ent=safari

There is no cure. There may be treatment. People like the guy in these videos desperately need better treatment.
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Black and White thinking is a common characteristic of Autism, that is no secret, doesn't mean it applies to you as individual though:

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Many individuals with autism think in "concrete" or "black and white" terms. They like rules. They follow the rules. They expect every one else to always follow the same rules. They like rules that are always the same way.


http://www.autismtoday.com/articles/black_and_white.asp?cat=1

You asked him to speak for himself, but then when he suggested no one could speak for all autistic people you suggested they could speak in behalf of a group if the assertion was correct.

But yet, he made a correct assertion regarding that many autistic people think in black and white terms, that can be backed up by evidence, and you suggested he speak for himself.

The statement that many autistic people think in black and white terms, isn't a suggestion that you as an individual think this way. Instead it is a generalized statement that many think this way.

On the other hand, all autistic people are indeed different, so no one individual can understand all their needs and speak to all their needs. If you don't think in black and white terms, that is a perfect example, that no one really knows how any particular autistic person thinks.

Studies suggest that Suicide rates are higher than the statistical average for people with ASD's; he didn't suggest that autism kills, he suggested that some people don't survive severe cases of it. In some cases, where people commit suicide for related psychological problems, the fact is they don't survive. It is a horrible tragedy but unfortunately, reality for some.

He didn't suggest that there were cures for the problems related to autism he suggested there may be cures for problems some endure like gastrointestinal illnesses. No one knows what causes autism, and there is no cure for autism, but there is the potential for curing co-occuring medical conditions, with further research and treatment developments.

There have been those, not necessarily in this particular thread, that have suggested that autism speaks be destroyed because they do nothing good for autistic people.

The organization is working to research autism, to provide treatment for co-occuring medical conditions, so to suggest that they be destroyed, is a suggestion for that particular research they support, not to be provided that support.

While one may hope to stand in the way of research by providing that type of comment, in actuality, instead, it may provide free publicity for Autism Speaks, that gains the organization more support.

Yes the guy in the video needs better treatment, that is part of the reason why autism speaks continues to receive the support it receives, to continue the research that may lead to improved treatments, for individuals that experience autism this way.



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22 Oct 2011, 3:53 pm

Autism Speaks is your friend



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22 Oct 2011, 4:33 pm

No they're just a group of people that I have a huge disagreement with.



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22 Oct 2011, 4:41 pm

aghogday wrote:
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Many individuals with autism think in "concrete" or "black and white" terms. They like rules. They follow the rules. They expect every one else to always follow the same rules. They like rules that are always the same way.


http://www.autismtoday.com/articles/black_and_white.asp?cat=1

That doesn't give him the right to just diss on other people because he can project characteristics that he wants them to have to make them all sound wrong. Furthermore his assertion is irrelevant and an argumentum ad hominem so very obvious that he needs to be brought down from his head in the clouds.
Ironic is the fact that you were also projecting characateristics on me in an earlier thread aghogday and so discredit what I said.

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You asked him to speak for himself, but then when he suggested no one could speak for all autistic people you suggested they could speak in behalf of a group if the assertion was correct.

Which is perfect because it shows that you aren't even listening to what you say.

In the previous statement you say: Black and White thinking is a common characteristic of Autism, that is no secret, doesn't mean it applies to you as individual though:
So his assertion that: The problem with autism self-advocacy is the black and white thinking that comes part and parcel with an autism diagnosis.
is false by your admission.

Therefore my criticism that he should speak for himself because it's obvious that it doesn't apply to all self-advocates is true, and so ironically you provided the proof yourself that Tambourine-Man wasn't right in saying what he did.
I am not putting up the next two paragraphs. The first is just hot air and the second, well, I'll just say that it's deplorable word-twisting.

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Studies suggest that Suicide rates are higher than the statistical average for people with ASD's; he didn't suggest that autism kills, he suggested that some people don't survive severe cases of it.

He said this: Severe cases may not survive their autism.
That means that the autism was the main factor in their death that the autism was causative. What I can tell you is that actual severe autistics as we know them don't just take suicide because they barely have the minds to think of it and to be honest I know that it isn't autism that makes less severe austistics take suicide. It's other people. That's easily proven looking around these forums.
Furthermore I feel that what you are saying about suicide rates needs to be proven, rather than just said that it's proven. You're doing an Ipsum dixit. A logical fallacy.

John Scott Holman himself takes mood improving pills. It was said in an earlier thread. The fact remains that I know very much what would be causing him depression, and it wouldn't be his autism, it would be the abuse he had.


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In some cases, where people commit suicide for related psychological problems, the fact is they don't survive.

When people take suicide they don't survive.

You don't say?

aghogday wrote:
Yes the guy in the video needs better treatment, that is part of the reason why autism speaks continues to receive the support it receives, to continue the research that may lead to improved treatments, for individuals that experience autism this way.


And I say that the approach is false, and that you turn from saying that there's no need to cure certain things about autism to saying 'let's cure these guys!'

It all sounds disingenuous.



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22 Oct 2011, 4:56 pm

Tam just one question:

If we think in black and white, don't you think in black and white as well?



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22 Oct 2011, 5:00 pm

I'm just questioning him,

I'm not trying to discredit his "knowledge" of the thing to begin with.



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22 Oct 2011, 5:01 pm

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I'm just questioning him,

I'm not trying to discredit his "knowledge" of the thing to begin with.

I wasn't trying to discredit him. I was just saying how it did.



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22 Oct 2011, 5:03 pm

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Genesis wrote:
I'm just questioning him,

I'm not trying to discredit his "knowledge" of the thing to begin with.

I wasn't trying to discredit him. I was just saying how it did.


Fair enough



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22 Oct 2011, 5:06 pm

Genesis wrote:
Gedrene wrote:
Genesis wrote:
I'm just questioning him,

I'm not trying to discredit his "knowledge" of the thing to begin with.

I wasn't trying to discredit him. I was just saying how it did.


Fair enough


Thanks. You were right to question me. I like to think that whatever do is justified by my peers. It has become abundantly clear that Gedrenes are crap at being evil and are usually easy to pound for doing so.