How can we as Aspies?
ChromaticRaven
Pileated woodpecker

Joined: 19 May 2013
Age: 33
Gender: Female
Posts: 195
Location: Norway
By not giving them the response they want/ Expect from you.
*You can act as you'r indifferent to what they say / do to you or win them over with a smarter comment then theirs, for example (Point being making them to confused/shocked to come up with a swell comment afterwards):
- For example if someone says something cruel to you - The moment they start talking, pretend you are trying to fix our eyes on something behind them, while squinting you'r eyes occasionally (as you do when things are far away and you do not quite see what it is) and look bit confused. When they finish talking you say with a common voice: "Sorry what was that you said? I was so busy trying to spot where my patience ran off, he does not like mumble, nor incoherent contents. Now excuse me - I've got some hunting to do. "
*You can also chose to rise above them and their childish actions by being nice to them in return. (Almost no one like / are comfortable with being treated nicely by someone they treat in a poor manner)
* Make the best out of your life, work hard on being successful as a person, and try to achieve things. They probably won't like seeing the people who's lives they liked to make miserable, being great or worse even greater than theirs. And if you manage to achieve something really cool, don't act shallow about this/or to these people if you meet them afterwards - go for the nice treatment. This i think will really really suck for them - "The now successful person who'm i used to leash out on, is now not only living a great life, she/he also have managed to look past what i did and treat me in a kind manner. Man i suck.."