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Huckleberry Finn
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03 Sep 2025, 7:54 pm

Sorry, I wrote while you were writing.
The fact that what you write about children acting like children, okay.
But it depends on the case.

If you ignore them... then... okay, I'll end this discussion.

As for the rest, 4-year-olds, those who are normal, act like 4-year-olds.
Period.
It's normal for them to adopt behaviors within the range.

In my case, at 4 years old, I didn't feel like a child at all: there's something to that.
I felt like an adult.

I also knew what I wanted to do next, what to study, what job to do next, my passions.

For me, my personal answer wasn't within the range.
Not at all.

As for the rest: everyone evolves at their own pace.

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The problem arises when growth is truly dysfunctional and problematic.

Not when it's within the range of the usual.

I think the child's argument is fine, but in this case it completely distorts it.

To the detriment of the individual: the child is a human being who must be protected, raised with the utmost respect, and made happy even afterward.

Does this happen by denying the evidence, if it's been evaluated by a team of competent doctors?

Not by parents concerned about normal things.



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03 Sep 2025, 8:45 pm

BTDT wrote:
After decade of diet an exercise I now have an hourglass figure. 30B-24-34 inches, 5ft2in, 102 lbs. I grew out my hair so it reaches the middle of my back. I shop in 2 inch heeled booties or platforms. Some of it has to be genetic as many CIS women have great difficulty in their quest to have an hourglass figure--or at least the thin waist part.

Fortunately I live in a place where transgenders are reasonably well accepted in both legal rights and by my friends and neighbors.

Hi BTDT.
We generally don't have an acceptance problem either.
In some cities, they don't even look at you.
The most important thing is that you feel good about yourself.
In any case, don't care about others if there are problems, ignore them.

I remember that in Milan, a transsexual (m/f) came into the pharmacy where I was.
There were quite a few customers.
The person wasn't Italian.
She thought the pharmacist remembered her because she was transsexual.

Do you know what she said?
Excuse me, I see so many people I don't remember.
Can you tell me what you need, please?

She asked for her medication.
I waited until she came out to see if there were any comments.
None.

A completely normal situation.

Something annoying happened to me on the subway.
A non-Italian Eastern European woman, amusedly seeking my gaze to make fun of a trans woman.

I looked at her with such annoyance that she didn't try again.
The other people were all busy talking about other things.
Or generally silent, looking at their smartphones.

The girl was extremely embarrassed and couldn't wait to get out of the car.

I was sorry, but just one foolish person can cause a huge trauma.

I think the first and most fundamental thing is respect, politeness, and kindness. Above all, you can't judge others.
I don't like it.

Where I am now, they tend not to look.
Then I completely avoid comments and gossip.

Sometimes they talk to me about people I don't even know.

Bad.
They always find fault: but they don't think about their own faults.

If I can, I leave immediately; if I can't, I let them talk and don't comment on anything.

Personally, I think a world that embraces diversity is beautiful.
Very beautiful.



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04 Sep 2025, 7:10 am

Around 90% of autistic adults over 40 are undiagnosed in UK, researchers find

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Some 89 to 97 per cent of autistic adults aged over the age of 40 are undiagnosed in the United Kingdom, the largest report of its kind has found.

While autism is now commonly recognised and diagnosed in childhood, many older adults grew up without the same awareness or assessments available today, leaving them to navigate middle and later life without the support that a diagnosis can bring.

The review, published this week in the Annual Review of Developmental Psychology, found that older autistic adults consistently face higher rates of physical and mental health conditions, as well as challenges around employment, relationships and life events such as menopause and retirement.

Dr Gavin Stewart, co-lead of the Re: Spect Lab at King’s College London and lead author of the review, told Euronews Health:

“Autism in older age is often overlooked. Over the past decade or so, there’s been rapid interest in what happens to autistic people as they age”

The hidden health risks of autism in adults
The review collated evidence showing that middle-aged and older autistic adults have higher rates of immune diseases, cardiovascular disease, neurological disorders, gastrointestinal disorders, anxiety and depression. They are also more likely to develop conditions typically linked with ageing, such as Parkinson’s disease, osteoporosis, and arthritis.

Some of the findings are particularly alarming. Data showed that older adults with high autistic traits are six times more likely to experience suicidal thoughts or self-harm, and four times more likely to be diagnosed with early-onset dementia.

Life expectancy was also found to be lower: autistic people in the UK live to an average age of 75 compared to 81 for non-autistic people. The authors caution, however, that these figures may be skewed by high levels of underdiagnosis.

"Part of this may be genetic, since many conditions share common genetic factors. But a large part comes from external challenges: stigma, barriers to education and employment, social isolation, and even difficulties accessing physical exercise," Stewart explained.

"All of these create a knock-on effect that worsens both mental and physical health”.

Calls for better support
Research into ageing in autistic populations has increased almost fourfold since 2012, but just 0.4 per cent of all autism research since 1980 has focused on people in midlife or older age.

Stewart warned that more investment is urgently needed in support and services.

“The support offerings are a really important area that needs a lot more research. We need to know what kind of support people want, how best to implement it, and how to make sure people aren’t falling through the cracks – whether that’s healthcare access or wider issues like social isolation".

He added that there’s also a big piece of work needed around awareness and identifying undiagnosed autistic people.

"If we’re looking at around 90 per cent of people over 40 being undiagnosed, that’s a huge population not getting the support they need," Stewart said

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The above is why I say the perception of an epidemic of autism over-diagnosis is the problem.


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04 Sep 2025, 7:49 am

I think overdiagnosis, as you describe, also stems from the nothingness of the nothingness done before.

Those diagnoses are so many also because they weren't done before.
Clearly, if you add up billions of people and among them at least 1/5% diagnoses, it's because they're finally being done.

A bit like, for example, realizing that China and India exist and saying: "Oh my! How many more people are there in the world now!"




It could be worse! It could rain!

:)

Sorry, it's not directed at you, but at the denialist society.

Three billion are too many; they weren't there before.

Weren't there?

Sorry, surreal example.

A line from Mel Brooks' Young Frankenstein comes to mind; it immediately became a hit in Italy and then all over the world.

Gene Wilder says: "It can be done!"




Now we come to another quote, Igor's: "It could be worse: it could rain."

And boom! It's raining on the cemetery. :)



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04 Sep 2025, 7:54 am

Jeremy Hunt is second only to Andrew Lansely for inflicting wanton destruction on Britain's health service. Nothing he says about medicine or health can be trusted. NOTHING. Might as well trust Adolf Hitler for advice on the Torah.


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