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15 Oct 2011, 4:20 pm

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I think autism is just a label to describe someone who appears to have a deficit in communication, but this is subjective and biased because we live in a world full of NT's, run by NT's for NT's. Meaning that we are a minority neurotype who is expected to understand everyone else, but everyone else dosen't need to understand us. We have to to somehow fit into all the institutions and social codes around us, but they don't need to make accomadations for us. Of course in this situation it is going to look to society as if we have a "deficit" in communication.

And I don't buy the idea that there is a diametrically-opposed inverse relationship between "social skills" on one side and "intelligence" on the other. There are just different people with different minds and personalities, and the ones who are alike will understand each other, and the ones who are different won't. But unfortunately we still live in a world where conformity is god, and this idea permeates all the facets of society. (I have school in mind especially here.)

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Scythe you are right. They get mad when we try to explain ourselves, just think of how many teachers would hold grudges against us because we were trying to say one thing but they thought we were being smart asses but we were just trying to prove a point and not be nasty at all.


Yes I had these experiences as well, unfortunately they don't want you to prove points or have any individual thought at all, but instead to sit there like a good little member of the unthinking herd and parrot what they say. I feel sorry for androrobot as well as i've read alot of his posts where he was trying to think for himself and offer new solutions to problems, and the herd would just persecute him for not conforming.


These are the ideas that I have wanted to profess for so long, yet it is so sad that I have spent most of my time fighting for some free space so that these thoughts may be said clearly and without oppressive assault by Anti-ASAN or Anti-Autism Speaks all the way demagougery.



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15 Oct 2011, 6:42 pm

OrangeCloud wrote:
I think autism is just a label to describe someone who appears to have a deficit in communication, but this is subjective and biased because we live in a world full of NT's, run by NT's for NT's. Meaning that we are a minority neurotype who is expected to understand everyone else, but everyone else dosen't need to understand us. We have to to somehow fit into all the institutions and social codes around us, but they don't need to make accomadations for us. Of course in this situation it is going to look to society as if we have a "deficit" in communication.

And I don't buy the idea that there is a diametrically-opposed inverse relationship between "social skills" on one side and "intelligence" on the other. There are just different people with different minds and personalities, and the ones who are alike will understand each other, and the ones who are different won't. But unfortunately we still live in a world where conformity is god, and this idea permeates all the facets of society. (I have school in mind especially here.)

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Scythe you are right. They get mad when we try to explain ourselves, just think of how many teachers would hold grudges against us because we were trying to say one thing but they thought we were being smart asses but we were just trying to prove a point and not be nasty at all.


Yes I had these experiences as well, unfortunately they don't want you to prove points or have any individual thought at all, but instead to sit there like a good little member of the unthinking herd and parrot what they say. I feel sorry for androrobot as well as i've read alot of his posts where he was trying to think for himself and offer new solutions to problems, and the herd would just persecute him for not conforming.


Exactly, there will always be different solutions to a problem then what we are handed by the people that want to be our mouth pieces.



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17 Oct 2011, 1:38 pm

I am not sure "fear" is the best word to describe what NTs feel, but they definitely are put-off by our abilities. It makes me think back to that Danish software testing service (sorry I forgot the name) that hires only Aspies as software testers. Their employees enjoy testing software for hours on end, with a keen eye for detail and little to no social interaction. Most NTs cringe at the thought of such work, which they consider boring. I imagine a few who don't know our kind may find that exploitation of a population, which it clearly is not.

It makes me think a bit to child labor. None of us today would accept a 10-year-old working a mechanical loom for 12 hours a day, every day, and using his tiny hands to fit into the machine. But what if that child liked that kind of work? It's all a matter of perspective.



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18 Oct 2011, 12:27 am

..so NTs don't have special abilities now?



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18 Oct 2011, 9:49 am

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..so NTs don't have special abilities now?


No. They can't learn Hyper Beam at level 52.



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18 Oct 2011, 11:47 am

Hyper Beam? Oh wait thats a Pokemon reference....



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19 Oct 2011, 4:38 pm

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..so NTs don't have special abilities now?


No. They can't learn Hyper Beam at level 52.


I counter your hyper beam with Confusion:) They sure can learn lets follow what's mainstream now you hear now!



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20 Oct 2011, 3:43 am

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Speaking of Autism Speaks (excuse the pun), I was in the Health Sciences room at my HS today for a test for another class, and I saw a student-made poster on the wall advocating Autism Speaks. I will credit it, it did say (quote) "Autism cannot be cured, but it can be treated with early intervention" (endquote) but it did point to the AS website. I was half tempted to burn it, only I didn't have a lighter (this is school we're talking about). But my point is, for an organization that claims to speak for autistics but doesn't take the autistic's personal opinion into account, they have too much influence over how autism is thought of by our government and the public. The need to be discredited, and soon. The question is, how to do it...

Heres a thought for you, if your capable of reading that student-made poster, or using a lighter to burn it then your not really the target market for Autism Speaks. They're more aiming at the 'unable to wipe own bottom' end of the scale.

This is the problem with the word Autism, its a bit of a curse, its kindof like using the word poison in a conversation where one person has in mind the alcohol in a Gin and Tonic, and the other nerve gas.



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25 Oct 2011, 6:45 pm

Regarding HFA/Aspergers, from the OP of this thread, I think it's almost the inverse that is happening. It's more that people with Aspergers are becoming obsolete in today's "Brave New World." Not the reverse where Aspies are coming out of nowhere like Xmen or something. It seems rather improbable that things have massively changed in genetics like that over the past few years, and because of it, autistic savants run rampant around society.

I think in the past, the world was just a kinder place for people with Aspergers, or it had a direct advantage, which is why it's still part of the gene pool. Remember, Aspergers and HFA was only identified in the 20th century. Before that, the nonverbals would just be called mutes, dumb, etc. The "Aspies" however, I want to make the argument that Aspies had it awesome. Aspies would be the rulers, inventors, etc of societies of old. Basically, read of Newton, Tesla, Einstein, etc, most people say those people had Aspergers, usually pretty severely. Nobody cared. Why? What they had to offer more than made up for their social nuances. Also, lots of things people have problems with on this board were completely a non issue in the past. Have trouble finding dates? Arranged marriages, problem solved! Also, there was less media in general back then, so people's perceptions of a normal person were only able to be based directly upon people around them, they had no outside ideas about how people were "supposed" to act. In societies in general, too, it was not coed, so you'd not have to worry about the nuances of a coed society. As most people know, being around other people of the same sex is generally socially easier and less demanding, less "acting" required.

I could go on and on about this subject with historical points, but my main point is, I believe Aspergers, genetically, is tending to get "phased out" which is why we notice it in the first place. Jobs, for example, at least here in America (who knows, I could be completely talking out of my ass for the entire rest of the world) if you look at application questions, very little is dependent upon what you can actually do. Most questions are along the lines of "How good are you at being a team player?" and how socially extroverted you are. I've even had job applications (Autozone) give a complete 70 question psych eval with questions completely not pertaining to work like "I like to play tennis, true or false." "I like shooting guns, true or false." Life now, simply, is not about what you can do performance wise, it's about how well you can "relate" with people. Oh well, I'm rambling now, sorry.

O Brave New World!



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29 Oct 2011, 2:03 pm

You're absolutely spot on there, 1000. Very perceptive comments.



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29 Oct 2011, 2:06 pm

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Speaking of Autism Speaks (excuse the pun), I was in the Health Sciences room at my HS today for a test for another class, and I saw a student-made poster on the wall advocating Autism Speaks. I will credit it, it did say (quote) "Autism cannot be cured, but it can be treated with early intervention" (endquote) but it did point to the AS website. I was half tempted to burn it, only I didn't have a lighter (this is school we're talking about). But my point is, for an organization that claims to speak for autistics but doesn't take the autistic's personal opinion into account, they have too much influence over how autism is thought of by our government and the public. The need to be discredited, and soon. The question is, how to do it...

Heres a thought for you, if your capable of reading that student-made poster, or using a lighter to burn it then your not really the target market for Autism Speaks. They're more aiming at the 'unable to wipe own bottom' end of the scale.

This is the problem with the word Autism, its a bit of a curse, its kindof like using the word poison in a conversation where one person has in mind the alcohol in a Gin and Tonic, and the other nerve gas.

As I say: Autism is the overgeneralized junk taxon of psychology and neurology.



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29 Oct 2011, 2:47 pm

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Regarding HFA/Aspergers, from the OP of this thread, I think it's almost the inverse that is happening. It's more that people with Aspergers are becoming obsolete in today's "Brave New World." Not the reverse where Aspies are coming out of nowhere like Xmen or something. It seems rather improbable that things have massively changed in genetics like that over the past few years, and because of it, autistic savants run rampant around society.

I think in the past, the world was just a kinder place for people with Aspergers, or it had a direct advantage, which is why it's still part of the gene pool. Remember, Aspergers and HFA was only identified in the 20th century. Before that, the nonverbals would just be called mutes, dumb, etc. The "Aspies" however, I want to make the argument that Aspies had it awesome. Aspies would be the rulers, inventors, etc of societies of old. Basically, read of Newton, Tesla, Einstein, etc, most people say those people had Aspergers, usually pretty severely. Nobody cared. Why? What they had to offer more than made up for their social nuances. Also, lots of things people have problems with on this board were completely a non issue in the past. Have trouble finding dates? Arranged marriages, problem solved! Also, there was less media in general back then, so people's perceptions of a normal person were only able to be based directly upon people around them, they had no outside ideas about how people were "supposed" to act. In societies in general, too, it was not coed, so you'd not have to worry about the nuances of a coed society. As most people know, being around other people of the same sex is generally socially easier and less demanding, less "acting" required.

I could go on and on about this subject with historical points, but my main point is, I believe Aspergers, genetically, is tending to get "phased out" which is why we notice it in the first place. Jobs, for example, at least here in America (who knows, I could be completely talking out of my ass for the entire rest of the world) if you look at application questions, very little is dependent upon what you can actually do. Most questions are along the lines of "How good are you at being a team player?" and how socially extroverted you are. I've even had job applications (Autozone) give a complete 70 question psych eval with questions completely not pertaining to work like "I like to play tennis, true or false." "I like shooting guns, true or false." Life now, simply, is not about what you can do performance wise, it's about how well you can "relate" with people. Oh well, I'm rambling now, sorry.

O Brave New World!


No I think that things are much better for Aspies now than they were in the past, and I don't understand why you equate us with "non-verbals."

Conformity was the bedrock of society in most ancient civilizations, the church and the state were one. Those in power used the standardized thinking of the mob to enforce their rule, people who didn't think the same way as everyone else were burned as heretics, publicly flogged, put in stocks so everyone could throw eggs at them and laugh at them for socially or politically incorrect thoughts and actions. If a murder had been committed, the weird and reclusive person around the corner was immediately thought to be guilty, dragged through the streets by the victims family and their friends and neighbors, and hanged from the nearest tree.

We aren't all rulers and inventors , and I don't believe that Einstein and Newton and all these other famous people that are claimed to be Autistic really were, and even if they actually were, they represent a small minority of unusually successful Autistic people.

It is true that they are placing increasing emphasis on being a "team player" and "extroverted" and the like, but we now have anti-discrimination laws that work in our favor, and a welfare state to catch us when we fall. Give me today instead of ancient Egypt or medieval Europe any day.