I went and watched the video, trying to keep an open mind because I am Not Fond of Autism Speaks.
I certainly felt for the moms in the video. (Why just moms, I suddenly wonder?) I have experienced some of what they talk about and it is undeniably very hard and painful.
The movie is an awfully one-sided, one-dimensional view of autism, however. Many of the children shown were very young; nothing is said about the fact that things may well improve as they get older. The children were all shown at their absolute worst--even NT children have absolute worsts that are pretty damn bad. And there was nothing about good times.
If they had picked, say me, to be in that video, I could have found plenty of terrible things to talk about. But I also could have talked about the adorable things my son says, his fascinating ways of looking at the world, the amazing things he did before he could really speak. He is admittedly much "higher-functioning" than the children shown. But that's doesn't make him any less a legitimate face of autism.
I saw children trying to communicate and participate in that video. I don't blame the parents for ignoring them at the moment while they concentrated on something else; that doesn't mean they do it all the time. But it tells me there was more to the story than the film was telling. I don't know if those parent were even *asked* if their child ever did anything to make them smile or feel proud.
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Sharing the spectrum with my awesome daughter.