LostAlien wrote:
I learned some social skills from cats when small, I think if a child has a connection to an animal the animal can teach them a lot of social stuff because animal communication is usually more obvious. The links can then be made to less obvious social stuff with other humans.
There's also the comfort of knowing someone who won't reject them, who likes them even when they make mistakes and someone who a child doesn't have to pretend things to. Why would anyone want to take away someone so precious from a child who needs them?
Yes! We both came up with the same conclusion independently. Even before I knew I had AS, I knew that I could understand dogs easier than humans, and that I felt better when interacting with dogs. It was a comfort thing. Dogs are more predictable and they never mask, but humans always have some hidden thoughts.
The other thing I noticed is that in order to successfully interact with a member of another species, you have to be very conscious of their body language. NTs are not conscious of human nor dog body language. They communicate with intuition, which works fine when you are communicating with other humans, but doesn't work so well when communicating with other species. Being, an autistic individual, you need all the practice you can get being conscious of body language, so a dog or a cat is good preparation. I can decode body language in dogs much the same way I decode body language in humans, and it's a conscious effort. I found that other humans were always ignorant of a dog's body language. For example, they would extend their hand to the dog as the dog's head is turning away. Obviously, the dog doesn't want to be pet and might bite because he doesn't trust the human.
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