ER, I think you have the start of a good idea with some form of "mutual assistance" group. Might I also suggest identifying pro-Aspie areas (for reasons such as supports, Aspie-friendly businesses, good transportation, etc.) for people who might be looking to change locations?
This would allow for more effective use of limited resources, and also allow local contributors to see that their donation had a local impact.
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