Page 1 of 1 [ 6 posts ] 

ASPartOfMe
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 25 Aug 2013
Age: 67
Gender: Male
Posts: 38,085
Location: Long Island, New York

03 Aug 2016, 11:04 pm

Luke's Best Chance: One Man's Fight for His Autistic Son More than a million children in America are the autism spectrum. What happens when they come of age?


_________________
Professionally Identified and joined WP August 26, 2013
DSM 5: Autism Spectrum Disorder, DSM IV: Aspergers Moderate Severity.

“My autism is not a superpower. It also isn’t some kind of god-forsaken, endless fountain of suffering inflicted on my family. It’s just part of who I am as a person”. - Sara Luterman


alex
Developer
Developer

User avatar

Joined: 13 Jun 2004
Age: 39
Gender: Male
Posts: 10,216
Location: Beverly Hills, CA

04 Aug 2016, 1:15 pm

Thanks for sharing. Stories like this remind me of how broad the spectrum is. Although I disagree with the assertion that autism is on the rise due to something other than an increase in diagnosis.


_________________
I'm Alex Plank, the founder of Wrong Planet. Follow me (Alex Plank) on Blue Sky: https://bsky.app/profile/alexplank.bsky.social


B19
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 11 Jan 2013
Gender: Female
Posts: 9,993
Location: New Zealand

04 Aug 2016, 9:26 pm

The father sounds really tuned in to his son's bests interests.

I question the article's claim that "40%" of autistic people never learn to speak though. In the far past decades maybe, when you had to be very severely disabled to be diagnosed perhaps that may have been the case.

Much lower figure is considered here:
http://learning.imascientist.org.uk/201 ... not-speak/



Tawaki
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 30 Sep 2011
Age: 61
Gender: Female
Posts: 1,439
Location: occupied 313

06 Aug 2016, 10:37 am

The only issue I had was the father blaming autism for the demise of his marriage.

If he had the *average* NT kid, I guessing his marriage would have swirled into the toilet anyway. This job took him away for weeks at a time. It takes a pretty understanding spouse to handle that with no kids. What other s**t storm frolics went on in the marriage, that wasn't disclosed.

Dude, OWN your damn divorce. Your son's autism didn't send it over the cliff, it probably would have happened anyway. I guess autism is a socially acceptable excuse for the divorce. Your son's own story is compelling enough without dragging your drama into the mix. Two sentences could have acknowledge the divorce without publicly placing blame one anyone.

Had he cut out those big chunks of self pity, it would have been a good article.

Rolling Stones..do you have no copy editors anymore? You have so jumped the shark. I get this is a human interest story, but it should be better edited than a Weebly mommy blog.



Spiderpig
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 14 Apr 2013
Gender: Male
Posts: 7,893

06 Aug 2016, 10:48 am

If his former wife got fed up with their son and decided to divorce him, he's right in blaming his son for the demise of his marriage—no self-pity at all.


_________________
The red lake has been forgotten. A dust devil stuns you long enough to shroud forever those last shards of wisdom. The breeze rocking this forlorn wasteland whispers in your ears, “Não resta mais que uma sombra”.


Meistersinger
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 10 May 2012
Gender: Male
Posts: 3,700
Location: Beautiful(?) West Manchester Township PA

06 Aug 2016, 10:55 am

I don't consider Rolling Stone as a reliable. Source of journalism.