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20 Dec 2019, 4:45 am

‘SCRAP THIS ABLEIST S**T’: WAITROSE CRITICISED FOR STOCKING MAGAZINE WITH ‘AUTISM CURE’ COVER

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A woman has criticised Waitrose for stocking a magazine with a cover that reads: “Reversing autism – reigniting your child’s brain”.

Sophie Walker from London, was shopping in her local Waitrose supermarket, when she came across the “Get Well” magazine cover on the newsstand.

Walker, who has a 17-year-old daughter, Grace, with an autism diagnosis, told The Independent: “I was so shocked when I saw it, it made me stop in my tracks.”

She took a photograph of the magazine and shared it on Twitter, with the caption: “What is this absolute crap on the shelves of my local Waitrose? Have you any idea how offensive this is?

“My daughter is well. Her brain is fully ignited – and firing such that she creates and thinks in ways that inspire and astound me daily. Scrap this ableist s**t now.”

In the 24 hours since she shared the tweet she has had hundreds of supportive responses from people in the autism community.

Walker explains: “The idea that people with autism are failing, that they need to be cured because they’re unwell, it is so manipulative.

“I particularly worry about the parent of a child who might have a recent diagnosis, or be waiting for one. In that time there is a lot of uncertainty and parents need support, love and kindness not to have autism framed as something that needs fixing.”

Walker’s daughter Grace, who was not shopping with her mum at the time, also shared a statement with The Independent, saying: “Instead of complaining about autism, we should consider what it must be like for the child in question, who’s actually got it.

"What does that child need? How can they be supported and appreciated as they are?

“Parents with autistic children can have a difficult time of it. But trying to change who your child is not at all the solution to dealing with them, whatever that involves.”

Grace said that autism is not a “defect or mental illness” and instead should be seen as a “different operating system”.

She cites famous people with autism including climate activist Greta Thunberg, who has Asperger syndrome (a form of autism), as proof that autism is not a barrier to success.

Walker has not received a response from Waitrose since her tweet.

A Waitrose & Partners spokesperson told The Independent: "We do not usually take a view on the editorial content of the many hundreds of magazines we sell.

"However we are very sorry this has upset some customers and we will be raising these concerns with our supplier."

A spokesperson for Get Well magazine told The Independent: "We are sorry that our cover and headline has upset some people with autism or have an autistic child.

"We believe that it is more an argument about language and the way we have depicted the problem, and as a result of these criticisms we have become more sensitive to the language that should be employed.

"Most complainants have read only the cover headline and not the full 4,000 word article. Nonetheless, they want to shut down the debate and deny genuine hope to people who are seeking ways to improve their lives and those of their children."


I have not read the magazine article but I will take an educated guess that they are selling a quack cure. If the so called cure is dangerous it should not be on the store shelves. Reforming the magazine is a hopeless endeavor. Their problem not politically incorrect language. That they call us a “problem” while arguing for different wording tells me all I need to know. If the store is to stock this magazine they should also stock pamphlets from the National Health Service or National Autistic Society.


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20 Dec 2019, 4:54 am

On to the fire!

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26 Dec 2019, 5:19 pm

Quite apart from the objections mentioned in the above-quoted article, the article they were objecting to advocated dangerous quack treatments. For details, see Get well? Get bent! Yet another harmful ‘cure’ for autism shows its face.


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28 Dec 2019, 5:31 pm

ironically agree with Darmok (I guess it happens)

NTs will not understand why autistic people would object to a magazine doing a story on autism cures....it actually comes across a little like self-sabotage

There are more important things to focus on



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28 Dec 2019, 6:00 pm

Mona Pereth wrote:
Quite apart from the objections mentioned in the above-quoted article, the article they were objecting to advocated dangerous quack treatments. For details, see Get well? Get bent! Yet another harmful ‘cure’ for autism shows its face.


This article is quite funny. :lol: And worth the quick read.

What is tragic about the article the OP refers to is how many parents will try anything to "cure" their child's autism, including things that endanger the child's life.


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28 Dec 2019, 6:43 pm

blazingstar wrote:
What is tragic about the article the OP refers to is how many parents will try anything to "cure" their child's autism, including things that endanger the child's life.


It's up to regulatory authorities to prohibit sale of dangerous treatments/therapies and for parents to exercise some common sense when playing with their children's lives. However the desperation of many NT parents is not something the high functioning autism community is ever going to influence. As I said before..."never the Twain shall meet"

Infact seeing an perfectly functioning articulate autistic adult condemn parents in a public forum would probably make NT parents even more desperate when they compare them with their non-verbal teenage child who can't toilet themselves to go try something even more unconventional.



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01 Jan 2020, 12:44 pm

I think a big part of the upset is where she came across the mag. Waitrose is posh nosh, people pay extra to shop

there and have a pleasant supermarket experience. It's only a small step down from Marks and Spenser's. You don't

expect anything remotely controversial. You don't expect to be offended by anything when you're in there, you're

literally paying for the privilege of not having to deal with other people's crap.

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She's not surprised at the mag; she's angry at Waitrose. They can't read every mag they sell but they should be

aware of how controversial each mag they sell is. They don't sell all of them (inc some popular ones), all shops vet

their stock depending on their customers. They need to keep an eye on this mag or they'll loose custom.



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01 Jan 2020, 1:15 pm

I wouldn't touch a copy of that issue with a 40 foot pole. My brain is well ignited, thank you. The author of that magazine needs to reignite their heart.


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04 Jan 2020, 4:55 am

CockneyRebel wrote:
I wouldn't touch a copy of that issue with a 40 foot pole. My brain is well ignited, thank you. The author of that magazine needs to reignite their heart.


The intended magazine audience is parents like me rather than autistic adults



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04 Jan 2020, 5:18 am

cyberdad wrote:
CockneyRebel wrote:
I wouldn't touch a copy of that issue with a 40 foot pole. My brain is well ignited, thank you. The author of that magazine needs to reignite their heart.


The intended magazine audience is parents like me rather than autistic adults

Which is why I am interested in how they portray Autism.


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04 Jan 2020, 5:29 am

It should be apparent the publishers are seeking advertisers who market alternative therapies
https://getwell.solutions/magazine/

The publishers attitude to autism is no different to any other condition, their clients seek to offer alternative therapies/treatments for all manner of ailments/conditions.

The publishers are interested in making money from advertising revenue and if the treatments work or not is probably left to the readers to decide.



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04 Jan 2020, 8:36 am

cyberdad wrote:
It should be apparent the publishers are seeking advertisers who market alternative therapies
https://getwell.solutions/magazine/

The publishers attitude to autism is no different to any other condition, their clients seek to offer alternative therapies/treatments for all manner of ailments/conditions.

The publishers are interested in making money from advertising revenue and if the treatments work or not is probably left to the readers to decide.


Not always. Some remedies are harmful and the medical establishment, not the average supermarket shopper, needs to step in.

All kinds of things can generate revenue, but that doesn't mean they should be promoted or even permitted.


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04 Jan 2020, 8:37 pm

Benjamin the Donkey wrote:
All kinds of things can generate revenue, but that doesn't mean they should be promoted or even permitted.


Yes but that's up to the regulators to decide. Clearly its legal to publish aforementioned treatments and the public can choose if they want to try them or not. As I said before, parents don't like being told be strangers what they cant do for their children.