6 year old writes book on how to handle autistic parents

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22 Oct 2020, 7:41 am

Boy, 6, becomes Britain's youngest published author

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A six-year-old has become Britain's youngest published author after writing a book on how to handle an autistic mum.

Heath Grace, who lives in Carnkie, Cornwall with his mother and three-month-old brother Elias, wrote and illustrated My Mummy is Autistic when he was just five.

The published book contains a foreword from wildlife presenter Chris Packham, who has Asperger’s.

In the book, Heath explains what it is like living with a parent with autism and it includes hand-drawn illustrations to help explain autism to other children.

Joanna says the idea for the book stemmed from an encounter at the supermarket when she accidentally ran over his foot with a trolley - as she couldn't process the words "stop" coming from her son.

Joanna explains: "My autism means I process language more slowly than the next person might. I hear and understand it all, it just buffers a little as it goes in.


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22 Oct 2020, 7:48 am

Well that's cheeky but she's a kid so it's better than being a so called 'autism parent' and making a child's neurodiversity all about oneself.

I was relatively spoilt as a kid but if I was cheeky enough to talk about how to handle my mum, I would have got loss of privileges.

Most kids I know would've got a smacked bottom for it.


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22 Oct 2020, 8:00 am

My kids definitely have to "handle" me, e.g. deal with my hyperfocus and poor executive functioning. However, I wouldn't like this knowledge published with my name and photo attached to it.
But if one day they joined a community of "children of autistic parents support group", I wouldn't be offended at all.


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22 Oct 2020, 8:26 am

Not a parent nor have any autistic parent, but I like it and the whole idea too.


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23 Oct 2020, 3:22 pm

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Joanna says the idea for the book stemmed from an encounter at the supermarket when she accidentally ran over his foot with a trolley - as she couldn't process the words "stop" coming from her son.

Joanna explains: "My autism means I process language more slowly than the next person might. I hear and understand it all, it just buffers a little as it goes in.


I guess that explains why it would take me a little longer to respond to the commands and I have gotten in trouble for it too as a kid because I didn't stop soon enough.

Luckily I don't have this issue anymore. It took me lot of training until I was a young adult to have this skill.


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23 Oct 2020, 3:26 pm

magz wrote:
My kids definitely have to "handle" me, e.g. deal with my hyperfocus and poor executive functioning. However, I wouldn't like this knowledge published with my name and photo attached to it.
But if one day they joined a community of "children of autistic parents support group", I wouldn't be offended at all.



What if your child wrote a fiction book about a character having an autistic parent but it was based off of you and them?


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23 Oct 2020, 3:49 pm

Just to read the origional post. Unless I have read it wrong, the 6 year old who was 5 writing it is a he and not a she. I thought I would say this incase he reads this thread and says "I am not a girl!"
It means a lot to a six year old to get his gender right. :P

It is lovely to write a boom at that age. My brother was drawing plans and measuring them out and he made himself wings when he was around three. He had me cut selotape for him as he could not fid the end, and he made his wings from cardboard and wood.
Then we had to rush otside as there he was standing on top of the slide my Dad had made (Dad was a carpenter and had made him an excellent slide which was quite high) and he was just about to jump!


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24 Oct 2020, 6:07 am

League_Girl wrote:
magz wrote:
My kids definitely have to "handle" me, e.g. deal with my hyperfocus and poor executive functioning. However, I wouldn't like this knowledge published with my name and photo attached to it.
But if one day they joined a community of "children of autistic parents support group", I wouldn't be offended at all.
What if your child wrote a fiction book about a character having an autistic parent but it was based off of you and them?
I would be very curious to read it; probably okay with publishing it.


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