Bloodheart wrote:
Smokers aren't stupid, they're addicts who one day made the same mistake that millions of other people did; to try smoking once and falsely thinking that it tasted so foul they'd never get addicted.
I have to agree with you there, smokers (I'm unfortunately included in that demographic), are addicts. I may have been stupid to start in the first place, but I'm not too stupid to realise the consequences.
I think it's very easy for non smokers to say "give up", or "why don't you give up if you know what it's doing to you?"; it really isn't that easy, particularly like me when you have very little will power!
I grew up with parents who smoked (hated the smell, hated the idea of what it was doing to them) and vowed NEVER to smoke myself. I saw people in my school smoking in the back of the bus at the age of 16/17 and wasn't interested in joining their rebelious, 'cool', 'in crowd' habit. But when I went to Uni, things changed, I recall someone sticking one in my mouth when I'd had a few drinks and the next morning I bought my first pack, I still to this day don't know why.
I wasn't necessarily trying to fit in (but I suppose there was an element of it at the time), but it was more to do with having something to do with my hands if I was out at night, or having somewhere to go when there was the dreaded 'break' during the lectures rather than sitting alone or trying to strike a conversation with someone.
Although I am most definitely addicted, I still use it as a tool to get out of situations I feel uncomfortable in, or as a 'comfort blanket' to hide my awkwardness when I don't know what to do with myself!
So, I am another Aspie who smokes!