KevinLA wrote:
I have been watching Celebrity Rehab on VH1.
I am starting to believe that alcoholism/drug addiction are mental weaknesses. I have been around drug users/alcoholics, and most of the people are just mental midgets.
Kevin
I have not read the rest of this thread so I am not sure if what I am about to say has already been covered. I am just responding to you and your initial posit.
I take great offense at your characterisation of drug addiction. From the age of fifteen I was an habitual cannabis user and then for three years into my early twenties I was a heroin addict, I challenge you to demonstrate that I am in any way a "mental m***et".
Drug addiction has many elements but essentially I believe there are two main elements one very physical and the other, I believe, is an emotional/metal disorder (not to be confused with mental retardation or for that matter that most judgemental of all sayings 'lack of willpower' or as you characterise it 'a person with the mental capacity of a midge'- Yes, just in case you are wondering that is exactly what "mental midgets" describes. Once you have dealt with the brain malfunction or the source of emotional torment the physical addiction is relatively easy to defeat.
When people question the validity of acute brain illnesses I wonder if they would question The Flu, or Pancreatitis, and tell the person they are just being weak and get over it or how about more chronic brain illness such as long term depression. I rage inside when people suggest that someone should just 'get over it and move on'. Would they do the same for heart disease?
I am of the generation that for the most part did not have the benefit of an ASD diagnosis. I found out 5 years ago.The torment I went though as a kid was something I would not wish on my worst enemy, is it any surprise that I self medicated, that I immersed my hurting brain in euphorics and tranquilisers. Fortunately I came through, I managed to survive and get off the drugs, and have had a life that until my understanding of ASD I described as "going through life life a wrecking ball".
Since my DX I have been able to stop the constant suicidal ideation brought on by the consistent f***s ups in my life, which I can now understand and explain. I have learnt about my disorder and made changes in my social approach to life for the betterment of all.
So next time you describe as "a mental m***et" a person in such emotional distress that they self medicate, you need to stop and think about you base judgement.
Above all Kevin you need to stop getting your knowledge from pulp tv, that way you might sound less ignorant regarding the topics you choose to discuss.
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