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Itendswithmexx
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17 Oct 2021, 12:36 pm

How to handle being disrespected all your life?



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17 Oct 2021, 1:16 pm

I don't know.Ignore and devalue others negative opinions, Be assertive. use anger as an energy if you feel you're being disrespected.


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17 Oct 2021, 1:18 pm

What does devalue someone else’s opinion? How do you do that?



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17 Oct 2021, 1:26 pm

Well, its kinda like dehumanise, if for e.g. a pedophile arsonist serial killer told you you're a " bad person" and tried to judge,disresepct you,would you value their opinion?


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17 Oct 2021, 3:13 pm

Nope. But why would they say that lol



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17 Oct 2021, 3:15 pm

But then again,if there smarter than me they may be right?



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28 Oct 2021, 5:08 am

Itendswithmexx wrote:
But then again,if there smarter than me they may be right?


You'd really trust a pedophile arsonist serial killer's moral judgement of you just because their IQ happens to be higher?



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28 Oct 2021, 2:10 pm

Itendswithmexx wrote:
How to handle being disrespected all your life?


What I've done is keep moving on and on in my life. I move away from people who have abused me and disrespected me. Sometimes this has meant spending long periods alone but it's way better than the alternative. At each time I've moved on I've learned something, like a new lesson and grown stronger from it. I just keep moving towards people who are worthy of me and I can just leave the rest behind. They really don't matter.