FleaOfTheChill wrote:
I've been under the impression that psychopathy and sociopathy are terms used by law enforcement more than anything else. Both falling under ASPD, but because of differences, they are split to do things like help the FBI with profiling. I was into that kind of stuff a few years back. I forget which one has the tendency to have emotional (violent) outbursts and which is more prone to calm, methodical violence. Either way, both have the lack of empathy and superficial charm thing going on.
From previous research:
Sociopaths are made,
Psychopaths are born.
Sociopaths tend to be less intelligent.
Psychopaths tend to be more calculating.
Sociopaths tend to be more violent than psychopaths, physically at least.
FleaOfTheChill wrote:
With ASPD, you can often identify signs that someone might turn out to get that dx as an adult. ODD, then conduct disorder (are those evenstill inthe dsm?) are usually dx's in kids who grow to have ASPD.
I had a friend whose son was diagnosed as a sociopath.
He was told that by 18 it becomes part of a person's "identity".
FleaOfTheChill wrote:
Not always, sometimes they fly under the radar, but they always meet the criteria even without the dx as a child. Not all kids with those diagnosis get ASPD as an adult though. ASPD folks are also (fun fact here) often bed wetters, and continue to be so well past the age kids usually outgrow it.
I've never run into a person with ASPD, or maybe I have and didn't know it. I doubt they advertise it. I have run into narcissists though. I was married once to someone who had that dx and they never told me

I found out later after the divorce was final. I was lucky to get out of that relationship.
There are people who are the fun kind of crazy, and then those who are the scary, run for your life types. I'm sorry you had run ins with the not so fun types, but I'm glad you got away with your life. Victory.
It was always about money.