Lecks wrote:
Moog wrote:
Actually, I think a psychic/medium performing the kind of service I think we are talking about here (ostensibly allowing someone to talk to a passed one) can provide a way for the client to deal with unprocessed 'stuff' - feelings and whatnot toward the deceased. It can be a useful ritual for bringing out any clogs in the bereavement pipe, so to speak. Many folks go around with unfinished business with their dead ones, especially if the deaths were sudden, and other than seeing a counselor/shrink I feel this is a good way to deal with it.
So, even if it's not 'real' (and I make no claims to know either way), such a service is useful and can have very positive psychological effects for the client.
Of course, no psychic frames their work the way I just did.
As a tarot reader, I don't claim psychic abilities, though often I do readings that come out in the most bizarrely meaningful ways. I have to give credence to the idea that some things do occur for which our current science does not have models for.
But I am an agnostic and a skeptic about the reality of psychic powers. My own psychic moments come and go without me finding any way to harness the power reliably.
While I agree with the general idea, I think it's better to see a counselor/shrink. The result would be the same and there would be no lies involved.
You're assuming all psychics are frauds, and I don't necessarily. Fair enough, but. One man's milk is another's poison. There's more than one way to skin a cat. If a shrink works, good. If a psychic works, good. If standing on your head and putting cheese up your nose helps, yeah you see my thing. Results matter.
Being a tarot reader myself, I never claim to be psychic, and I
never lie. What I often do is use a mixture of common sense, mythological allegory and intuition (and yeah, sometimes I do get what seem like 'psychic' impressions) to create a coherent reading, and absolutely no lies are told.
I believe that people should have options, and there's probably a lot more people in 'our' society who would choose the shrink over a shaman. I think it's worse when people don't have any recourse at all, or don't feel they do. There's probably as many people who think shrinks are all
frauds as there are people who think all psychics are frauds.
There's a fair smattering of con men and women in every field of sales and services. Caveat emptor. Choose wisely.
I can't believe this thread came back!
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