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Sarah81
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09 Mar 2012, 3:07 am

mycats wrote:
It is very likely I had Aspergers Syndrome to begin with. With the presence of lifelong emotional abuse from my mother, it may be impossible to know for sure. It is very likely that having Aspergers to begin with marked me as being a victim.

It is very involved to try to define Muchausen syndrome by proxy. There is definitely abuse happening to Autistics. It is not just child abuse. There is continuous abuse as adults.

When I see an Asperger support group that is dysfunctional, what am I supposed to do? Am I supposed to start my own group or do I make the existing one better.

The Asperger support group is all about parents of young children. Someone has to tell these parents that their children have to be involved in speaking for themselves. The children need their own support group and they need to be involved in saying what services they need.

It has to be investigated why no parents of adult children exist at the meetings and why parents of adult children have not formed their own separate meeting. I don't know what is happening in other regions but the Lehigh Valley is really screwed up. The Lehigh Valley is a very prejudiced place to live as an Autisic person and the parents of Autistics in this area don't even have the capability to even have Autistics be inclusive in the dysfunctional parent run Autism meetings.

I have tried over and over again to reason with the parents that run these Autism meetings. I have tried to do this for 12 years. These people cannot be reasoned with. Don't tell me what the f***ing protocol is to make a report to the FBI. I will do what ever I have to do to change the f***ing system.


Hi again my cats,
This post is starting to make more sense to me. This is what I understand so far:

1. You are absolutely, positively FURIOUS. Not just angry, but really really furious.
2. You felt you were abused by your own mother. (I am deeply sorry that you suffered this)
3. You are extremely concerned that this might happen to other children besides you, and that these children will not be able to express what is happening to anyone
4. As an adult you still feel that there is no forum in which to receive support.
5. You are determined to do anything you can to right these wrongs.

Am I right so far? Or completely off-track?



mycats
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09 Mar 2012, 6:17 am

Yes. That is all correct. What you said.

I am getting unfair criticism from other people who have responded.

One idiotic criticism I got is because My age is listed as 44 and I am not a child that I cannot possibly report child abuse. I have never claimed to be a child reporting current child abuse but I mention my own from the past and also the way my mother still acts.

An adult can report child abuse that they observe happening to children. I have not specified any specific names and incidences and because of that the trolls on this website acuse me of being too vague. When people require me to specify specific names and incidences to prove to them that this is real, f**k them.

Thank you Sarah. None of my anger in this message is meant for you.



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09 Mar 2012, 6:21 am

Locked due to personal insults