What do you do to deal with depression?
SuperSimoholic
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker

Joined: 1 Aug 2011
Age: 33
Gender: Female
Posts: 52
Location: Bristol, UK
Some eat, some drink, and some regress do deal with it.
This is me! Accept I'm still depressed :/
My partner makes me happy, but the rest of the world gets in sometimes...
As for a cure for the original poster... Counselling, maybe? That helped me a long time ago, but then I had to stop (it was a school counselor) and I'm still waiting to get a place with the adult mental health people and get a new counselor/psychologist.
First you'll need someone in your family to contact individuals, groups, or families by mental health professionals, including psychotherapists, psychiatrists, psychologists, clinical social workers, counselors, and suitably trained psychiatric nurses to help alleviate your symptomology.
Psychotherapy if sucessful can reduce symptoms of depression by a stance that challenges a person's enduring self-defeating cognition / thoughts and changes counter-productive behaviors that further deepen your mood.
PDT is a form of psychotherapy that reveal's the unconscious content of a client's psyche in an effort to alleviate psychic tension , it is lesser studied and is based on psychoanalysis but it has been showned to make patients happier than CBT.
CBT is more functionally orientated it helps you manage in the real world by helping you solve problems concerning dysfunctional emotions, behaviors and cognitions through a goal-oriented, systematic procedure in the here and now. It's more studied than PDT and it is more effective in alleviating symptoms in Adolescents.
Exercise. Exercise, exercise, exercise. It turned me from a couch lump into a secret couch lump.
Edit: More lifetime depression pro tips (eleven years, lord in heaven): Curse whenever you want to, keep chocolate handy, and don't ever drink or do drugs-the comedown will be eye-gougingly bad and worse every time. Especially MDMA, holy crap. Keeping a rigid schedule will really help. See a psychiatrist. Find a therapist you like and build a relationship. Throw out all of your sweatpants, they are a gateway to temptation. You can fool the world by overdressing.
1. When in crisis (suicidal thoughts with intent, on the brink of self-harming) - Have someone you can call and make it a rule that you will call them before you do anything. Could be a partner, friend, relative, mental health worker, mental health advice line, whoever. If you can't get through, or don't feel any better after the call, go to the nearest hospital emergency department (casualty, ER) and talk to them.
2. When things are really severe but no longer in crisis - have hot baths (with the poshest bath products you can afford), light them with candles and wallow in them. Eat your favourite food. Watch your favourite comfort telly - the best shows/films from when you were younger and happier. Spend the day on the sofa under a duvet. Eat popcorn, Phone your frinds and family to let them know how you are and allow them to cheer you up a bit.
3. When you are feeling a bit better - take a shower, fix your hair, brush your teeth, get dressed. Go for a short walk somewhere, with a friend or family member if possible, maybe have coffee or lunch somewhere afterwards. Go home and have a microwave meal or takeaway for dinner.
4. When you are starting to feel less depressed - Eat breakfast. Get washed and dressed. Go for a short walk somewhere, with a companion, have coffee or lunch with them. Go home and spend some time catching up on a few chores before making dinner.
5. When you are feeling much better - Start to schedule different activities for different days, you could arrange more walks and lunch dates, but you could also join a sports club or gym, take up dancing, join an art or craft club, take on a coure to gain a new qualification etc. Keep up the good work of keeping yourself and your house clean,
6. Now is probably a good point to start seeing a therapist as you are probably more self-aware than you were at (1) and are in a position to seriously think about going back to work. She could probably work with you to effect the changes you want to make to prevent a relapse alongside guiding and supporting you through the employment process.
Nick88
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker

Joined: 5 Aug 2011
Age: 36
Gender: Male
Posts: 57
Location: Grafty Green - Middle of Nowhere
I've had depression most of my life. Ever since I was about eight years old or so. Right now I go to see a counsellor and I also am currently taking antidepressants which I just started up a week ago. Some days are better than others, but I have some really bad days still. I was in denial about the antidepressants for years, I did not want to do on them, but I decided to take them because the depression has gotten really really bad lately and I was getting to the extreme;ly badly point in my life. If you are suffering from depression, I would suggest seeing a therapist of some sort. Antidepressants are not for everyone, but counselling can help anyone, IMO.
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Edit: More lifetime depression pro tips (eleven years, lord in heaven): Curse whenever you want to, keep chocolate handy, and don't ever drink or do drugs-the comedown will be eye-gougingly bad and worse every time. Especially MDMA, holy crap. Keeping a rigid schedule will really help. See a psychiatrist. Find a therapist you like and build a relationship. Throw out all of your sweatpants, they are a gateway to temptation. You can fool the world by overdressing.
What do you mean by secret couch lump? I get the exercise part - I know it helps just can't get out and do it yet.
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