Physically voilent

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24 Jan 2012, 4:12 am

Under what category of disease does a physically voilent person come.

Especially someone who hits small children and without any particular reason.

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24 Jan 2012, 4:18 am

Don't they have a psychopath disorder? I'm no expert but If so I would say that definitely fits! I personally think those people should be in prison, but sadly they're often the CEOs, actors, and politicians of our countries. That being said, if you know someone like that it doesn't matter their disorder, you should report them to the police asap!!

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24 Jan 2012, 4:29 am

sookie2 wrote:

oh! actually my father had this disorder
he used to beat us up without any apparent reason
in india laws are very lenient person gets away even after killing someone
and child abuse + domestic abuse etc is not considered any offence.

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24 Jan 2012, 4:45 am

Omg Wow!! Im so sorry to hear! I didn't know India was that backward. Fortunately I have met a lot of good Indian people. Also I don't think that is very common amongst humans. Are you ok now? Did he hit you? I guess that would pretty much ruin a chance at a healthy relationship. I hope you have gotten assistance to help deal with the trauma. And I hope u realize the desire to abuse comes from weakness of character in the abuser and has nothing to do with you. My mom was verbally abusive but only spanked me a couple times. And my dad spanked me once. It was awful. mNeedless to say those were extremely traumatic but I got through and will never spank my kids!! !!

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24 Jan 2012, 7:56 am

sookie2 wrote:

ya india is a very male dominated country. men take decisions of the house woman are only nodding and listening to commands

My dad was very dominating he used to beat us up daily, even my mom used to hit me severely and my brother too. I am not ok now i have lot of psychological issues depression, PTSD, low self esteem, low confidence,

I have learned to deal with trauma on my own by meditating etc. But my mind wants to escape at all given cost it just wants to forget the pain

I agree with you that voilence here indicates weakness of character and that too hitting small, immature children who are not even aware about whats happening is really bad.

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24 Jan 2012, 9:52 am

I have been beaten by my father and emotioionally abused by my mum fron April 1974 to early December 1979 and more abuse from 1982 from my mum Who actually threatened to kick me out of my home in November 1979 and spent 30 years lying about the event as neurotypicals do. Even forgetting a telephone message would get you a beatimg till you was black and blue. I think now that I should not exist as my mum and dad should have been sterilised in the 1950s. I now despise spoiled brats who have never experienced a good hiding in their life. I did not grieve when my dad died in January 1989. I also have issues with PTSD. My parents did not make an effort to learn about autism or any issue related to it. Because of what my dad done I have to choose wisely carrer options due to damaged co ordination brought about by repeated beats to the back of the head. Love was very thin on the ground and supportive environment Forget it. :arrow:

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24 Jan 2012, 10:32 am

Alas, corporal punishment of children is still very common and legal all over the world. The authorities only step in when parents injure their children in the process, otherwise it is usually ignored and not seen as child abuse.

I don't think that people who beat their children have a mental disorder. They certainly have a short temper and anger issues. But the main reason for their behavior is that they themselves were abused (beaten) as children and have learned early on to view physical violence as an appropriate response, which it isn't of course. There are cultural factors too. Corporal punishment is widely accepted and people love to quote silly proverbs like "spare the rod, spoil their child".

Personally, I totally agree with comedian Louis CK's comments on corporal punishment:

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=za4tpJKQMtw[/youtube]

Louis CK wrote:

I really think it's crazy that we hit our kids, it really is. Here is the crazy part about it: Kids are the only people in the world that you're allowed to hit. Do you realize that? They're the most vulnerable and they're the most destroyed by being hit, but it's totally ok to hit them.

And they're the only ones! If you hit a dog, they f---ing put you in jail for that sh-t. You can't hit a person unless you can prove that they were trying to kill you. But a little tiny person with a head this big who trusts you implicitly? F--k them, who gives a sh-t. Let's all hit them. Hey, people want you to hit your kid. If your kid makes a noise, they're all like "Hit him! HIT HIM!! !"

We're proud of it! We tell "I hit my kids." That’s what people say, "you're damn right I hit my kids." - "Why do you hit them?" - "Cause they were doing a thing I didn’t like at the moment and so I hit them, and guess what? They didn’t do it after that." Well, that wouldn’t be taking the f---ing easy way out would it? How about talking to them for a second, you f---ing r-tard? *Bam!* What are you, an idiot? Are you a f---ing ape?

He has a way with words

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24 Jan 2012, 11:35 am

Aspiewordsmith wrote:

I can relate well with this cos i was in same boots.
even sometimes i feel that i am part of a dirt, i feel dirty....my daddy used to rape my mom forcibly definitely i am not born out of love but out of lust and dirt....i am part of two insane people
Even i have choosen a career which is low paying and not considered to be a creamy profession its because of damaged coordination and physical voilence.
so there are people with similar experiences :twisted:

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24 Jan 2012, 11:38 am

CrazyCatLord wrote:

corporal punishment can be or cannot be justified but it depends if the kid as done something wrong
means if i stole money, or i hit my neighbour my dad beats me up i justify it.

But if i have not done anything and just because my father thought that i ate from his plate he starts
hitting me badly with belt so much so that the edge of belt hits my nose and my nose starts bleeding
so much beating for something i have not done doesnt seem justified or valid

And i dont agree with you that they dont have mental issues because even i come from background where there was extreme
voilence but i have not resorted to that voilence in my house.........or with my child.

so definitely people who do such things should be in asylum.

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27 Jan 2012, 4:47 am

I do believe in light smacking and childish chinese burns or punch for punch (in this case TAP for TAP in a playful but teaching manner) towards kids honestly BUT I have no sympathy for abusive people ESPECIALLY natural authority figures like parents, no offence but I would myself teach your father some bloody manners just for fun, plus I don't think Id say Id give him some very trivial smacking or chinese burns or anything, oh no....I think he'd deserve being put in a Hurt Locker.......btw I hope everything in life for you has changed for you OP and I wish you the best =)

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27 Jan 2012, 7:54 am

kaiouti wrote:

well my father is no more.......and i wont go to hurt him in anyway even if he was alive i believe in the theory of forgiveness
about everything in life changing....well the pain remains, there are no friends, no social life, difficult to find jobs,
hard to handle child and his lessons, even more to actually keep a stable mind since i suffer from PTSD and depression

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