Civ001 wrote:
So does anyone here have any sort of speech impedament? I sort of do I have a nasal tone that I never noticed untill I was made fun of in school for it. But when I lisened to my own voice I sound fine to me. How about you?
I used to have very problematic issues with words beginning with vowels (a, e, i, o & u) and would avoid them at all costs. I then had difficulties with w's too which can pose problems with asking questions at school, etc. I had difficulties with other letters too such as with: h, s, b, d...in fact I have had a problem with almost every letter at some point. Particular frustrations are words beginning with h such as hello and g such as goodbye.
Not always being able to verbally express myself appropriately at times such as saying 'goodbye' racks me up with so much grief you wouldn't believe. Some times goodbye's are quick and yet I come to say goodbye and I block and cannot say it....I then come over as uncaring. Equally someone says hello in the street and I block and by the time I've said hello back I'm out of hearing range of that person and it's as if I didn't say hello or ignored them. Then next time I see them they don't bother saying hello. It is so frustrating when it happens and sadly that frustration/anger/rage is turned inwards and I stammer even more then.
I notice it seems to come on when there is particular boisterousness in the room such as when things start heating up in arguments or when negotiating and things are getting edgy. I suppose an edginess exists in a room when people are swapping social pleasantries and suddenly my stammer creates a kind of negativity and resentment as people don't understand why I haven't reciprocated quite as they expected. This creates tension where there shouldn't be any and can lead to particular conflicts further down the line and again that frustration/anger/rage is turned inwards.
I don't stammer all the time and can in fact read entire books without stammering at all.