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14 May 2014, 8:36 pm

So I have OCD... I know that for sure...

I become so obsessed with things (like the only thing I'll do in my free time for months now is sudoku) and also people (and then I start "liking" them)
I keep asking my self "do I really like this person or is it just OCD?"

Anyone else with diagnosed OCD experience this? Any one with Aspergers experience this? Anyone with both experience this?

I am wondering because I am genunuily curious plus I think I might have Asperger's



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14 May 2014, 8:45 pm

Asperger's consists of waaaaay more than obsessive interests.

I've been doing a lot of sudoku too lately. Do you time yourself and try to finish them as fast as possible?



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14 May 2014, 8:49 pm

starkid wrote:
Asperger's consists of waaaaay more than obsessive interests.

I've been doing a lot of sudoku too lately. Do you time yourself and try to finish them as fast as possible?


I know that, but I'm wondering if my obsessive interests go beyond OCD. I also have other aspie traits.


I don't time myself. I notice I have been getting quicker at it though. I bought a book that starts at the "hard" level and gets harder



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14 May 2014, 9:00 pm

walkthemoon wrote:
I know that, but I'm wondering if my obsessive interests go beyond OCD. I also have other aspie traits.


Well then:

Do you find it pleasant to engage in these obsessions?
Are you able to get "lost" in them for very long periods of time, possibly skipping meals, bathroom breaks, or neglecting hygiene?
Do you have a strong urge to monologue about them?
Do you continue to think about them when you are not engaging in them, to the point of distraction?
Do you find it difficult to switch from your interests to other tasks?



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14 May 2014, 9:33 pm

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Well then:

Do you find it pleasant to engage in these obsessions?
Are you able to get "lost" in them for very long periods of time, possibly skipping meals, bathroom breaks, or neglecting hygiene?
Do you have a strong urge to monologue about them?
Do you continue to think about them when you are not engaging in them, to the point of distraction?
Do you find it difficult to switch from your interests to other tasks?



Do you find it pleasant to engage in these obsessions? Yes they are really the only things that make me truly happy
Are you able to get "lost" in them for very long periods of time, possibly skipping meals, bathroom breaks, or neglecting hygiene? I often sit down in my class and then get fixated on sudoku or this computer game i like and then i snap out of it when the bell rings to go the next class. I do this at home when there are breaks, but not normally because I follow a strict schedule that's the same everyday.
Do you have a strong urge to monologue about them? YES! I do this with 2 of friends but then I stop because I get scared that they won't be interested. Today in art I was going on and on the whole class to the people at my table. I talk about my obsessions with people out of context, and I assume that they know what I am thinking or are in the same realm I am
Do you continue to think about them when you are not engaging in them, to the point of distraction? As soon as I get the urge, I must do it or else I can't focus on what I am supposed to be doing so I just give in when I can
Do you find it difficult to switch from your interests to other tasks? Yes, it can be. But, It's getting better because I keep telling myself "ok if I could just get through this homework/classwork, then I can play sudoku or go on tumblr"



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14 May 2014, 10:20 pm

walkthemoon wrote:
I bought a book that starts at the "hard" level and gets harder

Sorry if this is a bit off topic but... Where did you find that book? I used to love sudoku but I just ended up with tons of books that I only did the hard sections in and the first 2/3 of the book were left blank. I felt bad about this and so I tried various ways to make doing the easy ones fun but eventually it became to tedious and I got tired of it.



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16 May 2014, 6:56 am

I'm going to try to word this response carefully.
I'm not a professional, that should be obvious.

And I'm not trying to diminish the things you are experiencing, that's not the point of me responding.

Obviously your inability to fully participate in the day-to-day because of your preoccupation with one or two specific things prohibits you from functioning appropriately and it can mess with things in general. Also the other things you describe can be difficult to work around.

But, I would maybe suggest you get a second opinion on the diagnosis of the OCD? Not saying it's NOT valid or legitimate, but perhaps, as you say there is more going on, or a more complex presentation, or something?

I only say this because I have OCD. I my experience, and generally with other people I know who have OCD... the preoccupations they experience, and all the obsessions that take over their time, thoughts, life- they are not pleasurable. They literally take over their life.

They are compulsory. They also don't enjoy talking about them. They don't look forward to participating in them. They actually only do them to acheive some kind of relief from thinking about having to do them, and the relief is very temporary.

So, I'm NOT saying that what you experience isn't difficult, but maybe you have some else going on in addition. It may be helpful to make sure you know what you are dealing with?


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16 May 2014, 2:32 pm

SignOfLazarus wrote:
I only say this because I have OCD. I my experience, and generally with other people I know who have OCD... the preoccupations they experience, and all the obsessions that take over their time, thoughts, life- they are not pleasurable. They literally take over their life.

They are compulsory. They also don't enjoy talking about them. They don't look forward to participating in them. They actually only do them to acheive some kind of relief from thinking about having to do them, and the relief is very temporary.


Exactly. This is what I was thinking of when I posted those questions to the OP.

Of course, OP, if you have obsessions that are not enjoyable, that part could be OCD.



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16 May 2014, 10:24 pm

ImeldaJace wrote:
walkthemoon wrote:
I bought a book that starts at the "hard" level and gets harder

Sorry if this is a bit off topic but... Where did you find that book? I used to love sudoku but I just ended up with tons of books that I only did the hard sections in and the first 2/3 of the book were left blank. I felt bad about this and so I tried various ways to make doing the easy ones fun but eventually it became to tedious and I got tired of it.


On amazon...here's a link to the one I havesudoku book



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17 May 2014, 8:41 am

walkthemoon wrote:
ImeldaJace wrote:
walkthemoon wrote:
I bought a book that starts at the "hard" level and gets harder

Sorry if this is a bit off topic but... Where did you find that book? I used to love sudoku but I just ended up with tons of books that I only did the hard sections in and the first 2/3 of the book were left blank. I felt bad about this and so I tried various ways to make doing the easy ones fun but eventually it became to tedious and I got tired of it.


On amazon...here's a link to the one I havesudoku book


Thanks! :D



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20 May 2014, 6:43 am

To the OT:
It's better you go to a psychiatrist, than self-diagnosing.
You have some obsessive interests, but many do without having OCD. You don't really sound OCD to me. Of course there is the possibility that there is something wrong with you or even have OCD. But I've the feeling we wouldn't find out here. Psychiatry is very complex and there are no objective tests out there. Even people who go to a psychiatrist sometimes need years to receive the right diagnosis. I guess you read some stuff about psychiatry, but it's very difficult to self-diagnose. I once read about a psychiatrist who even didn't notice himself that he has depression. So if you want to have a qualified opinion, it's best you go to a psychiatrist and get a professional opinion.


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07 Jun 2014, 4:37 pm

walkthemoon wrote:
On amazon...here's a link to the one I havesudoku book


I'm running out of sudoku puzzles and thinking about getting this book. Are the puzzles the sort that you can solve purely by logic, or do you have to do a lot of trial and error?



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09 Jun 2014, 8:52 pm

I do have both aspergers and ocd. The difference between the two is that AS is interest driven whereas OCD is fear/need driven. The two intersect in an interesting yet pestering way. 8)



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10 Jun 2014, 2:51 pm

I have Aspergers, ADHD, Tourette's, and OCD. I find OCD to be the most crippling thing I have. It takes the most time and causes me the most anxiety.


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10 Jun 2014, 8:20 pm

I think we ended up with two threads! :lol:

starkid wrote:
walkthemoon wrote:
On amazon...here's a link to the one I havesudoku book


I'm running out of sudoku puzzles and thinking about getting this book. Are the puzzles the sort that you can solve purely by logic, or do you have to do a lot of trial and error?

You could honestly do it either way. There is a fair bit of logic with it. I almost never have had to resort to trial and error. But there're not exactly mind engaging, hard core, logic puzzles where you have to use different strategies with each any every puzzle. But I do find them pretty engaging.


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11 Jun 2014, 12:55 pm

ImeldaJace wrote:
I'm running out of sudoku puzzles and thinking about getting this book. Are the puzzles the sort that you can solve purely by logic, or do you have to do a lot of trial and error?

You could honestly do it either way. There is a fair bit of logic with it. I almost never have had to resort to trial and error. But there're not exactly mind engaging, hard core, logic puzzles where you have to use different strategies with each any every puzzle. But I do find them pretty engaging.[/quote]

You have this book already?