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Joined: 2 Dec 2014
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20 Jul 2015, 8:11 am

And I see no way out of it.

If someone is extremly ugly and at the same time is socialy handicaped/no personality, then there is no hope to get a social life.

I probaly have around 100 flaws.

How should I accept that I will be alone for ever?


Joined: 25 Nov 2014
Gender: Male
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Location: Orange County, CA

20 Jul 2015, 12:40 pm

Don't "accept" it, otherwise you'll only unconsciously exacerbate those feelings and actively avoid social interaction. I "accepted" the same thing many years ago and I ended up spiraling into a pattern of isolation and self-destruction which only made matters worse. I didn't even have a social life until I was about 25, and I bet I can count far more than 100 flaws I have/did have about myself.

The things that make you different are what make you special, and sometimes it can take a while to find the right people who will recognize that. If you ever wanted to talk, my PM is always open. :)