Crossdressing after 30 or 40?

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Does anybody here crossdress male-to-female and is over 35 years old?

What advice do you have for older male crossdressers. It's not a full time or public thing.

What sort of advice are you looking for?

If it's something you do occasionally in private, then there really aren't any rules - just do what you like / want.

Umm, Amazon is handy for buying inexpensive clothes and stuff privately, and free returns can help deal with sizing concerns. Amazon pretty openly caters to cosplayer and crossdresser interests.

This is more something I'll occasionally do in private, but not purely sexual per se.

If it's done privately, then what you do is entirely up to you.

For me, personally, if I'm in my own home, I wear whatever I want. Sometimes a skirt is more comfy to lounge around in than pants. Sometimes a t-shirt dress is the best option when I'm doing laundry and washing everything else. Sometimes I just want to wear something in particular, so I do. Sometimes I see a nice outfit, and want to wear something like it. Sometimes I'll wear something special or unique or w/e, just to have fun.

For me, personally, sometimes it's not sexual, and sometimes it is. I am a sexual person, and sometimes the two aspects - crossdressing, and having sexual feelings - will intersect. There's nothing wrong with any of that either, imo. It's my house, I can do what I want.

Either way, if you're in your own home, you too can do what you want. If you're looking for any specific advice, I can try to offer some - but without more details, I have no idea what kind of advice you're looking for. Sizing? Style? Colors? Inspiration? General inquiries?

Do you want to look good? First order of business is determining your skin tone and undertone. Stores like Sephora have scanners to objectively measure skin tone and undertone to help guide makeup choices and flattering colors for clothes. The wrong colors can make you look sickly.

Next is body shape. Most crossdressers have what is known as an Inverted Triangle body shape.
Top heavy with no hips.
There ar fashion guides to help you out.

I have an hourglass figure with a thin waist. Fashion advice is that if you have that, go ahead and flaunt it!
Hourglasses can wear pretty much anything.