Male lesbian, guydyke?

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Okay, my original response to this wasn't really a relevant one, so I'm starting over.

I think people who call themselves "guydykes" and "girlfags" are not the same as a man calling himself a lesbian. That makes no logical sense, and is probably expressed in sarcasm. To be a "guydyke" just means you happen to be attracted to women who appear to be tomboyish or androgynous. That doesn't really affect your sexual orientation. The phrase "I'm a lesbian in a man's body" is usually said in jest, and the only way it can be a proper statement is if you don't identify with your biological sex.

I get trolled by men all the time both IRL and online trying to force me to have sex with them since "they are lesbians also" - NO definition of lesbian = only female identified persons may be involved, period!

My roommates boyfriend calls himself a male lesbian all the time and it drives me crazy! He is clearly a straight man who thinks he is being clever. As an actual lesbian I find his tone and meaning offensive. If he would just stop saying words I might be ok with him but he is so obnoxious I am actually moving out next month. I have no problem with someone calling themselves a guydyke or a male lesbian if they are actually describing affection and love as opposed to being an aggressive creep!

I am a male lesbian, of I think I am.

Why I think this.
I tend to only fall head over heals for girls who have very lesbian characteristics.
Short hair kind of boyish looks, tomboyish attitudes. Ext.

I am a man. I was born a man and I identify as a man. I am only attracted to women.
I don’t get turned on by lesbian porn, I do not wish I was a girl by any means.

I only have been in 2 relationships where I actually felt I was in love. Both partners came out as lesbians. (One is still a good friend of mine and is getting married soon)

I know this discription sounds weak, but the living this way is very hard. I am alone and have been for a long time. I am certain that any woman I feel so connected too and in love with will never be able to feel the same way for me as they are not straight. I never felt a majic spark with any woman that is straight.

I have been lucky enough to get to kiss a woman I was very into (a lesbian) a few times. When our lips pressed every thing just went pitch black. Time no longer existed and us 2 where the only thing that existed. It was a feeling I may never experience again.