To be clear, I am a straight male who abhors the thought of being gay; it's not "normal", but it's similar to autism in the sense that you "just deal with it", so I get it. I tolerate and respect as much as possible all neurological conditions and understand it is not a choice.
Anyways, I had a mustache at 11, "fluids" at 12.7-13, 13.5 armpit hair and cracking voice, voice broken in by 14, beard at 15.
This is fairly typical. If you haven't got *anything* by 13, this is abnormal. Obviously, I can't say anything about the emotional aspect since Aspies in general are emotionally delayed.
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