How many autistic or ADHD are gay? Angy gay from Poland?

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pawelk1986
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08 Nov 2022, 9:46 am

I wonder how many guys are gays but don't like the contemporary gay scene as in that most gays are so girly :P



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14 Nov 2022, 9:42 am

I am a gay 28 year old in the USA and I don’t follow the scene. I’m masculine myself.



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28 Nov 2022, 11:08 am

Many guys who are gay don't "look" gay.



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28 Nov 2022, 11:13 am

I'm bi, never personally saw the appeal in things like drag and other flashy aspects of gay culture but more power to them I say. Maybe it's where you live but in my experience most gay guys are not particularly girly, I think those are the ones people just notice the most.



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12 Mar 2023, 3:10 pm

I'm gay. Or lesbian if you prefer since I'm AFAB


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