cosmiccat wrote:
Quoting Sallamandrina
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not being "heroic" enough to him acting like a snob and not "having fun like a normal kid"... Weird.
All of which I am or have been guilty of myself at times.
Haven't we all?

That's why I like Holden. Just like the "nerd" said, Holden is unlikeable in the same way we all are - he's not perfect.
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I wonder if this could be Theory of Mind? I love this guy so you will love him to. Could be why I had so few playmates way back when, "Let's play Parchesi! I love Parchesi! You will love Parchesi too!" Laughing Actually, I preferred being alone in my room surrounded by stacks of comic books, but Parchesi up there with my favorite pastimes.
Actually, I think it's like that for most people. Almost everybody I meet these days is
sure I
have to love shopping or Grey's Anatomy or beer or whatnot. The only significant difference seems to be that aspies like more unusual/less socially acceptable things. By the time I've turned 25 I knew I should keep my mouth shut about what I like - at least in those rare occasions I cared what impression I made. Until then I was absolutely
sure everybody would just
love Hesse or Victorian silver or even Salinger. I remember a dear friend telling me it's a terrible faux pas to mention Dostoevsky in a social situation - I thought he was adorably witty and sarcastic (which he was) and had no idea that he was also right.
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