I was into visual kei like, 10 years ago. When I was 16-17. I liked all the underground stuff, Dir en grey (though a friend did show me some of their more recent stuff... as long as Kyo is singing, it sounds fabulous), Luna Sea, Miyavi's first album or so, Raphael, Psycho le Cemu, and then I kind of lost interest because nothing sounded as good as the stuff I grew up with.
4 years later I got into European metal, and I haven't really looked back unless I was feeling nostalgic.
I also left the scene because I felt "too old" to really enjoy it, same reason I gave up anime. (Try being 24-25 with a kid talking to 18 year olds in college who want to cosplay as the bands. Yeah. Major disconnect.)
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Ari Levanah