25 Dec 2010, 1:26 pm
I'm listening to the smiths alone on christmas day. How aspie am i?
I'm sure this thread has been done before but without an advanced search option its hard to find.
appreciate my/our beloved smiths here.
I am my mothers only son but i'm a desperate one. *twirls gladioli* 
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The Smiths are great. 
01 Jan 2011, 10:33 pm
iHateCamera wrote:
jamieboy wrote:
Theres a club if you want to go , you could meet somebody who really loves you. So you go and you stand on your own and you leave on your own and you come home and you cry and you want to die.
My life. I love this song. Everyone said/says to me 'Oh just go out and you'll meet people everything will get better blahghjgf..' so I go out where people are but nothing happens, I just go home again.
you shut your mouth, how can you say I go about things the wrong way
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when you say it's gonna happen now, when exactly do you mean?
see I've already waited too long, and all my hope is gone
Yeah that lyric basically is the Aspergers nightclub experience. I've decided to stop subjecting myself to it until i have someone to go with. Doing stuff alone sucks.
Just had a click on the link to your blog there and it's pretty cool.
03 Jan 2011, 9:30 am
jamieboy wrote:
Just had a click on the link to your blog there and it's pretty cool.
aha thanks c:
03 Jan 2011, 12:59 pm
jamieboy wrote:
Yeah that lyric basically is the Aspergers nightclub experience. I've decided to stop subjecting myself to it until i have someone to go with. Doing stuff alone sucks.
I've known NTs who wouldn't go to a club alone because the experience of being such an outsider in such a hyper-social situation is unnerving and haunting for them as well. Anyone can feel isolated in a crowd, and be deeply impacted by that. We're all social creatures and that experience of being invisible to others in a place that's suppose to be about seeing other people is a shock to anyone's psyche. I just think between NTs and Aspies, we Aspies are more confused by it. NTs would better understand why they feel that way.
I go a lot of places alone, but they are the kind of places at are friendly to people who are alone--museum, early showing of movies, cafes at non-peak hours. You'd be surprised how many people do stuff by themselves. But some places I would never go by myself, like most clubs. Pretty much anything where there's a lot alcohol being consumed is not a good thing to go to alone, whether it's a club or a wedding reception or what have you. If you're invisible to them sober, you'll being completely non-existent to them drunk!
Anyhow, the Smiths....
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BjkMhwNWcbY[/youtube]
03 Jan 2011, 2:11 pm
iHateCamera wrote:
jamieboy wrote:
Just had a click on the link to your blog there and it's pretty cool.
aha thanks c:
No problemo.
