These are just my thoughts here, I apologize if they're not very good. I think that when someone writes a poem, it definately has a particular meaning to them, but, unless they state it explicitly, once the poem leaves their hands, that ceases to be its only meaning, and the meaning becomes whatever meaning the person who reads the poem draws from it. That is, I don't think there's ever one correct meaning/point of a poem-there is the meaning the author intended, but that's very difficult, if not impossible, to find. So I usually don't worry about finding any one correct answer, but try to find out what it means to me-that, to me, is it's meaning, and I think there can be many. There are many different layers and elements of a poem, so to me there are many ways to draw meaning, whether it's the emotions/images you draw from the words and the way it sounds or-and I'm certainly not saying you have to do this-from analysis of the way the rhythm, rhyme, and other literary devices conveys ideas/meaning. I understand why people find that approach annoying, it's just that I like to analyze things so I find that this method helps me sometimes in understanding poetry, and I am very interested in the relationship between a poems parts and its whole, so it's just a personal preference. I don't think there should be a lot of pressure for someone to find a correct meaning in a poem; it's a personal experience I think, and it's there for you to enjoy or inspire or make you think or feel 