When did you loose your virginity?

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19 May 2010, 12:30 pm

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I was 16 too, though...it was phonesex*Blush* With a girl who was 17, eventually we annoyed each-other to breaking point.

But yeah, could be he's mis-entered either his date of birth or birthday(which could possibly change his age perematurely:P)


Phonesex dosen't count as loosing your virginity.

I'm still a virgin, but I'm 16 in two months and I plan to get it sorted out then, as long I can actually find someone who wants to do it with me.



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19 May 2010, 1:53 pm

I'm 20, but gay in addition to autistic. I've been solicited, but I suppose that given population sizes, there's a decent chance I won't ever find someone I like.



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19 May 2010, 2:57 pm

yeah phone sex dosnt count.
lost mine with i turned 21 on my birthday with my now ex
it sucked



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19 May 2010, 7:40 pm

I never answered the actual question.

My first time of completely consensual sex was when I was 24.
16 year old kids "desperate to lose it" aren't doing themselves any favours.



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20 May 2010, 10:39 am

hale_bopp wrote:
I never answered the actual question.

My first time of completely consensual sex was when I was 24.
16 year old kids "desperate to lose it" aren't doing themselves any favours.


Why do you say that?



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20 May 2010, 11:45 am

Asp-Z wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
I never answered the actual question.

My first time of completely consensual sex was when I was 24.
16 year old kids "desperate to lose it" aren't doing themselves any favours.


Why do you say that?


Unwanted pregnancies, risk of STD, and most likely someone is taking advantage of someone else...

You can't expect a teenager to really be thinking about the consequences of their actions. Sure, some do, but not enough to prevent stuff like this from happening...



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20 May 2010, 12:03 pm

ToadOfSteel wrote:
Asp-Z wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
I never answered the actual question.

My first time of completely consensual sex was when I was 24.
16 year old kids "desperate to lose it" aren't doing themselves any favours.


Why do you say that?


Unwanted pregnancies, risk of STD, and most likely someone is taking advantage of someone else...

You can't expect a teenager to really be thinking about the consequences of their actions. Sure, some do, but not enough to prevent stuff like this from happening...


Condoms fix two of those problems, self-control and common sense fix the last.



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20 May 2010, 12:41 pm

13 and non-consensually.



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20 May 2010, 2:56 pm

Asp-Z wrote:
ToadOfSteel wrote:
Asp-Z wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
I never answered the actual question.

My first time of completely consensual sex was when I was 24.
16 year old kids "desperate to lose it" aren't doing themselves any favours.


Why do you say that?


Unwanted pregnancies, risk of STD, and most likely someone is taking advantage of someone else...

You can't expect a teenager to really be thinking about the consequences of their actions. Sure, some do, but not enough to prevent stuff like this from happening...


Condoms fix two of those problems, self-control and common sense fix the last.


Again, you can't expect a teenager to really be thinking about the consequences of their actions. A condom only works if the guy actually wears it. You'd be surprised at the mount of unprotected sex that happens, especially among this age group. You wouldn't have all these stories about teen pregnancies otherwise...



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20 May 2010, 3:17 pm

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What matters is whether you're a selfish undisciplined, immature partner who pops in under sixty seconds and can't please a woman, or considerate, experienced and in control enough to make sure the lady comes first. Literally. Less than forty full minutes is an abject failure. Don't forget your head and hands.


I don't think my head will fit :wink:


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20 May 2010, 3:42 pm

MishLuvsHer2Boys wrote:
13 and non-consensually.
I'm sorry to hear it... I hope they got the bastard and castrated him.



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20 May 2010, 3:51 pm

I was 20.


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20 May 2010, 5:24 pm

I'm 18, and, strictly speaking, I still haven't lost it. I haven't screwed or been screwed, so all the dirty stuff I have done doesn't quite count apparently. Not that it matters. I'm not in a rush to lose it either. Still though, I've lost a lot of innocence I kind of wish I hadn't, or perhaps wish I'd lost to someone else.... xP


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20 May 2010, 8:33 pm

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I'm 18, and, strictly speaking, I still haven't lost it. I haven't screwed or been screwed, so all the dirty stuff I have done doesn't quite count apparently. Not that it matters. I'm not in a rush to lose it either. Still though, I've lost a lot of innocence I kind of wish I hadn't, or perhaps wish I'd lost to someone else.... xP


Try not to think of it as "losing innocence", but rather "gaining maturity" (that is, if said maturity is actually gained). But it seems like you have a fairly level-headed outlook on it...



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20 May 2010, 8:35 pm

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20 May 2010, 8:46 pm

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Try not to think of it as "losing innocence", but rather "gaining maturity" (that is, if said maturity is actually gained). But it seems like you have a fairly level-headed outlook on it...

You make a very good point, thanks. Still though, there are definitely WAY better people to have gained those skills with, IMO. .__.


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