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nick007 wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
Yasmine wrote:
When I look at my past I would gladly trade my early romantic history with singledom and "too high" standards.
That pretty much sums up what my mother told me all my life since I was a young girl "Be Picky."
But I don't think that's what he means though. I think he means that people are often very judgemental of people before they give them a chance getting to know them at least. They don't have to become partners, but a lot of potentially great Boyfriends don't get a chance to prove themselves.
Then again though, people cannot choose who they are attracted to, and attraction can die just as fast as it hits, and that's why there is so much heartbreak in this world.
That's what I meant Thanx for explaining it. I don't explain things rite sometimes (or lots of times)
I seriously do NOT understand attraction. I do feel attraction towards people I don't know well but after I know a single women a while; I usually start to like em even thou I may of not liked em or even may of had a slight negative opinion at 1st. I know I do have my share of problems but I'm not chasing women who are prefect. I mainly want someone who will accept & love methere is an ongoing assumption that it is not possible, but has anyone ever really tried?
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I wouldn't want my parents setting up a marriage for me. They'd set me with some bible-thumper who looks down on anyone different than him. 
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19 Sep 2010, 12:39 pm
hyperlexian wrote:
nick007 wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
Yasmine wrote:
When I look at my past I would gladly trade my early romantic history with singledom and "too high" standards.
That pretty much sums up what my mother told me all my life since I was a young girl "Be Picky."
But I don't think that's what he means though. I think he means that people are often very judgemental of people before they give them a chance getting to know them at least. They don't have to become partners, but a lot of potentially great Boyfriends don't get a chance to prove themselves.
Then again though, people cannot choose who they are attracted to, and attraction can die just as fast as it hits, and that's why there is so much heartbreak in this world.
That's what I meant Thanx for explaining it. I don't explain things rite sometimes (or lots of times)
I seriously do NOT understand attraction. I do feel attraction towards people I don't know well but after I know a single women a while; I usually start to like em even thou I may of not liked em or even may of had a slight negative opinion at 1st. I know I do have my share of problems but I'm not chasing women who are prefect. I mainly want someone who will accept & love methere is an ongoing assumption that it is not possible, but has anyone ever really tried?
There was a post I had made in the Adult section about how I wish I was gay & someone said sexual orientation can be changed. so I imagine attraction could as well sense people are attraction is related to sexuality. The pot might be on the next page or so
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