intrested in tomboys

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So I Have a love for tomboys, and I was wondering if anyone does too?
and ladies, anyone want to give out any tips for dating one? or initiating that?

I'd stop calling them tomboys. I mean, some of them wear the label like a badge of honor, but we're not "one of the boys". We're still women. It's just that women can do all the same things men can do and can enjoy all the same things men can enjoy. We like getting dirty, playing and watching sports, swearing like a sailor and healthy competition. We may or may not spend time on our appearance, we may or may not be sexually aggressive. Pay attention to learn what specific things we like. One guy got his wife an engagement sphere (not a ring) that was part of a meteorite. Her wedding ring had another piece of the meteorite. Another guy showed up at his girlfriend's house with tulips and a steak after she received an average job performance review and was angry beyond words. We're people. So, if you find yourself attracted to a woman who has well-rounded interests and enjoys having fun (strange, right?), then count your lucky stars when you have a girl like that and don't screw it up.

Baha! Well, first off, tomboys are girls who like about 80% of the things guys like, which means they'll either hang out with other tomboys or a lot of guys. But when it comes to relationships they're like any other girl, so finding one shouldn't be the most difficult thing in the world.

I feel you.

My girlfriend is a wild "tomboy", she has a bunch of kickboxing and MMA training and I often spar with her "not in the face" style, usually at her request, when we get drunk. She's tried to triangle choke me on the asphalt in her apartment parking lot, I can't imagine what the passersby were thinking. She thinks she can choke me out but she can't

It's good times for sure.

I'd rather be called a tomboy than a ho. Some women might be more aggressive than others and some may just share interests which are seen more male dominant.

I've found that guys tend to like tomboys for all the wrong reasons, much in the same way that girls who proudly think of themselves as tomboys are doing it for all the wrong reasons. I can't put my finger on what these reasons are exactly, but the minute I can, you'll be hearing from me.

On an unrelated note, you need to get an avatar. I keep confusing you with boosterjones.

I've always preferred girls who are a little aggressive, with some interests that might be considered edgy. I don't think that makes them "less feminine". Maybe some will think I have this preference for "the wrong reasons" (whatever the f**k that's supposed to mean) but Barbie Doll types have never been my thing.

I could totally dig tomboys when I was much, MUCH younger. Every now and then I get to be around a tomboyish young woman and think, wow...she's just like that Christie girl I used to make out with back in the day. That kind of thing really gets me hot.

I'd still be cool with it if my situation was different, but the one thing I wouldn't want to do would be with someone who is overly physical. I'm not gonna punch back, so will ya quit hitting me???

Christie, btw, was a wonderful girl who, for all I know, had gone through some abuse in her late childhood, but at the time didn't fully understand that something was wrong with the way she grew up. Eventually I acquired a taste for much more "feminine" girls, but she's one of those I think about from time to time and ask "what if...?"

I was the weirdest sort of tomboy; I was one that didn't get along with boys (though not for lack of trying).

What are your reasons?