Sick fantasy about breaking others up

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08 Mar 2011, 11:44 pm

By allowing people to get away with cheating you encourage them to do so. I know it's a long shot but if you were standing next to Hitler after he had killed his first thousand, or ten thousand or however many jews it takes to make it a big deal to you would you kill him to prevent the needless slaughter? Fact of the matter is that even though a cheater doesn't kill anybody directly people can kill themselves over a cheater or at least wish they were dead. There really are no consequences to being a cheater if nobody tries to make you miserable for it, violent crimes the police can take care of but when someone destroys you emotionally and you want justice you have to take matters in your own hands and if you're lucky you'll save a few people from being in your shoes. Maybe they won't learn but it's not all about them.

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08 Mar 2011, 11:47 pm

Pistonhead wrote:

But that's the thing. Killing Hitler or whatever might actually prevent future atrocities. Keying your ex's car or spreading lies about an ex to ruin his/her relationship doesn't prevent anything. They're just going to get mad and then continue doing whatever obnoxious thing it is that they do (i.e. cheating).

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08 Mar 2011, 11:50 pm

You don't have to key their car and you really don't have to kill them. You just make sure every man/woman they get near knows what they are about. It also isn't lying if you say that a cheater cheated on you. Or you make up a false alias, trick them into plotting to cheat and showing the evidence to the SO.

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09 Mar 2011, 12:04 am

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But for that to work, you'd pretty much have to devote the rest of your life to stalking them and ruining every future relationship they might get into, because I assume they're never going to actually "learn their lesson" from any of it and change their outlook internally. That seems kind of like a huge waste of your time and life, when you could be off learning a skill or engaging in a fun hobby or getting into your own worthwhile relationships. You'd really want to spend the rest of your life obsessing about how to ruin this person's relationships? Then you're just spending all of your emotional and mental energy on negative thoughts, instead of worrying about your own life, all to prevent one person from cheating? It just doesn't seem worth it. Wouldn't you rather spend your life out being awesome instead of spending it trying to ruin someone else's?

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09 Mar 2011, 12:10 am

You're posting on an internet forum about morality do you really think that's a more entertaining past time than getting even? It only takes a couple hours to ruin a relationship (if even that) and people don't find relationships every day (even women lol).

FYI, ruining immoral peoples lives just makes my awesome life more awesome. Not that I've gone to any great lengths to make my cheating ex miserable....getting fired, having less awesome boyfriends, having to give up her two kids, etc. did all that for me. Though now she's been with a guy for a while and gotten engaged (for like the 4th time) and I can't wait to hear that they broke up, preferably him cheating on her but I'll settle for her cheating on him as long as it isn't happily ever after for her after what she's done to at least 3 guys.

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09 Mar 2011, 12:18 am

Pistonhead wrote:

You're posting on an internet forum about morality do you really think that's a more entertaining past time than getting even?

I do, that's why I'm doing it :lol:

I like reading about people's viewpoints and learning what people think.

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Not that I've gone to any great lengths to make my cheating ex miserable....getting fired, having less awesome boyfriends, having to give up her two kids, etc. did all that for me. Though now she's been with a guy for a while and gotten engaged (for like the 4th time)

That's what I mean--people who cheat, lie, etc. seem to have this way of making their own lives not-so-great in the long-run. Because odds are that, if they're selfish and immature in one regard, they're that way in other regards too that will impact other areas of their life as well.

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09 Mar 2011, 12:30 am

Did I mention she's now a successful photographer and web designer? She made it miserable in the short run but things are looking up. She's hit her mom in the mouth in the past even....and her mom buys her s**t now! Things need to go back to suckage in her life.

I come on here to talk to a few friends....oh and I'm super super bored today because people keep killing me on my mmo. This conversation is just passing the time, it is somewhat tiring and lacking in the entertainment department but it's one of the few slightly interesting topics that's actually moving.

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09 Mar 2011, 12:35 am

Pistonhead wrote:

I come on here to talk to a few friends....oh and I'm super super bored today because people keep killing me on my mmo. This conversation is just passing the time, it is somewhat tiring and lacking in the entertainment department.

I feel you on that. I'm supposed to be studying for yet another exam and have convinced myself that posting on forums somehow counts as less bad procrastination than doing something where I have to leave my notes in another room.

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09 Mar 2011, 2:47 am

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It's terrible but I've lately had a fantasy about breaking other people up. It's easy to figure out why. I envy the people around me, be they friends I know, or couples I see out walking, or when I hear about two beautiful, famous celebrities who are dating or getting married. I envy their happiness, that they've already succeeded where I failed totally. I have this special hatred for people who hit a homerun on their first outing, who find that someone without effort. Like a friend from high school who married the first girl he dated, and now they have a kid together and a home and he has a great job and on and on.

It makes me sick. I figure deep down, it reflects my inner hatred and disappointment, that they've found success so easily why I try so hard and so many times, and work to improve myself and I get nothing for it. And so I turn to this fantasy where I am like Iago, plotting to tear apart a happy couple, to bring down their joy a bit. And then perhaps I swoop in and take the girl. It seems all the girls I admire and respect most have already chosen someone else, and I dream of ways I could undermine that, secretly, to drive a wedge, and then take the other guy's place. I guess it's about feeling I have some kind of control when I've got none.

It's a terrible fantasy. I could never act on it, since I don't want to hurt anyone. But it is a powerful fantasy all the same...

You really need to get laid. Go get an escort. Get that crap out of your system.

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