Am I the only one who finds kissing incredibly awkward?

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Song isn't doing much for me.

I've done the tutorial search before, but I think I'm pretty good at it. I've only had a couple of bad kissing experiences. An ex kept shoving my face with hers. That was weird. I felt she was taking cues straight from a movie, like a scene when two people are kissing passionately. They part, look at each other, and suddenly they are exploring each others lips again. But she messed it up and didn't understand how much force she was applying, rubbing her face all over mine.

There's been 3 pages of comments and I haven't read 3 pages of comments. Sorry. But I'll toss my two cents in for the OP.

I don't find kissing awkward when it's done right. I have to be kissed a certain way. If someone knows automatically how to do it (because they like to kiss that way) or they are willing to learn, it's cool; but, I won't waste time on someone who stubbornly insists on kissing me wrong. Part of falling in love with my husband was his ability to kiss me into another world without needing any instruction, guidance or correction. I can kiss forever like a teenager when the kissing is good.

There are preferences in kissing. People kiss differently, and have different preferences in kissing.

A woman (hooker) told me that I have a long tongue, after I kissed her. I was actually deep French kissing her, almost deepthroating her. She told she liked it. Other escorts prevented too deep kissing by keeping a distance between the mouth and limiting the angle between heads (with 0 degrees no deep French kissing is possible, with 90 degrees it very possible).

I may have to kiss more carefully by not sticking out my long tongue so far.

As I said, I like French kiss because of lust, and less because of love. And I like to do French kissing games, for example playing and exchanging a candy between mouths. Letting her play with my tongue by touching it with her hands. Sucking my tongue.

Here is the winner of the All Time Awkward Kiss is Whitney from America's Next Top Model fame:

The same for me, but I am actually not strict in judging whether someone is a good kisser. So the kissing quality of the partner must be between average and excellent. If someone is real bad at kissing, I want to give instructions, for example: "Stick out the tong out, please." No further instructions if she does that right. If she ignores, I will stop kissing. Otherwise, when the kissing is moderate, good, or excellent, I can kiss for a very long time!