Looking for a REAL woman who doesn't turn me down!

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Maybe you could learn to market yourself better... Work harder at finding work that builds your self esteem. Your problem is obviously lack of self esteem. And lack of self esteem will put out a fire quick.

Ugliness isn't much of an issue. look at the 70's pictures. LOOK at the guy on the top! Hes uglier than a bear, And I bet he gets it all the time... " Ofcoarse back then everyone was high on coke "

And the money thing. well... After the feminism thing fired up years ago and it became more acceptable for women to make their own money. They started putting less emphasis on men being the bread winners. It now seams Women could care less if your broke as hell and playing video games all day and stuck in college for 15 years. As long as you have self asteem in your jackoffness and some longshot goals you will be a chick magnet. So all you really need to do is market your self esteem.

PS , Also stuff a sock in your pants that might help...

Who posted the shag carpet?

Sounds like you should get into match.com or one of those, there are tons of "real" women there, at least for the basic needs lol
Other than that, you should probably avoid giving certain information about yourself, if you want good odds. For example, saying you ahve never been in a relationship doesn't give you points, because I find that lots of women prefer a man with experience, not someone to educate from 0. Then something you should do is trying to explain or describe yourself in a more positive passionate way. For example:
"I am 29 years old, never been into a relationship, can't find one, I am just an engineer who goes to work and have a simple life" convert it into "I am still under 30! I can't wait to have new experiences and share them with a woman, get to know her, enjoy many things with her, and show her my love. I am an engineer, I work at blablabla and perhaps I can use some of my knowledge about engineering to make our relationship work smoothly make you feel like a person should feel, happy", that's sort of an example. Confidence means you want to sell a product and you do it with enthusiasm, passion, trying to convince the other person, and of course, once you sold the product (yourself), and you get in a relationship try to keep your word... lol So choose your role properly.

Don't think a woman should give you a chance, think you are giving that chance to a woman.

I'm just sick and tired of dating and being in a relationship I'm not comfortable with. I just want to have for once date (and possibly) be in a relationship with a "normal thinker" instead of a person with alot of issues.

I did match.com a bit while back and my profile was actually quite successful. The thing with match is its geared toward professionals though. I met many girls, but i had little time for dating during the week days and weekends considering i worked 90 hour weeks. So dating was just a scheduling nightmare for me. Even though i was quite depressed as hell i still maintained a good atitude in my profile info, and i basically did not try to sound needy and desperate.

Actually this below is a small sample of my profile description from match. It actually had girls emailing me first and not the other way around.

looking for long term best friend so when the passion fades theres something to take its place.

I like to describe myself with redundantly using the word I. I’m usually concise and straightforward but at times I babble incoherently. No just kidding, I always babble incoherently.

I listen to NPR on the radio frequently; I still read the news paper every day, even though I can get the same news off my computer. I suppose I’m nostalgic : )

you’ll also typically find me reading something. I also paint, draw, and do photography. I’m more of an artist than anything, but I’m currently working a job with an engineering firm.

My favorite color is green, but but not shag carpet avocado green. Shag carpet avocado green reminds me of vomit.