Feeling ugly, flat chested and that I'm not good enough

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Dear EmoGlambertAspie,

If you are hurting now, please don't take the unkind comments too personally.
None of us can really see what the problem is, so we can't know what to say.

With that operation
you are changing your destiny
and closing the door on all the potential lovers
who would have been attracted to you initially.

And if that is what you want
then it is your destiny to change
and none of us will think
any the less of you for it.

When are y'all going to understand that's the ONLY thing I dislike about my body?! I'm not going to find something else wrong, because to me there is nothing else cosmetically wrong.

I say go for the surgery but choose a safe and non-silicon method.

I am a pro-choice, if you really want to do that then do it, it is your body after all.

Emo, you have a body that a SUPERMODEL would KILL to have. And you want to change it?????? Do yourself a favor. talk to a counselor first about your body issue, And Yes I did look at your picture.

Send a letter to Cameron Diaz. Ask her if her breast size has affected her career. She is about the same breast size as you. And many guys want to date her.

The most common breast sizes in Hollywood is A,AA, A/B, B. NOT C OR D OR LARGER!. They main places you see those sizes are in porn.

@Boo I actually want to get the fat transfer done. It's just moving fat to where it's supposed to be.

There already is something she is insecure about, her lady-cave. And if that gets resolved there will be something else and something else. These are all things she has to work out on her own, be it through the surgery she wants, some counselling, soul searching whatever. Personally I think she looks hot and can think of a lot of women in the media that are her frame that are stunning.

@JanuaryMan I'm not insecure about my lady cave! I'm worried that IF I have a child it will stretch beyond recognition and if that happens, I'll get it fixed. No big. It doesn't always happen but IF it does I'll want to fix it. I don't see anything so horrible about that

Come to think of it, I don't see the problem either lol

Cave exploration is one of my favorite extracurricular activities.

When are you going to understand that the only reason you don't like this about your body is because you have a wild imagination about what the rest of the world is collectively thinking?

You need to think about where these ideas came from - media? According to the media Barack Obama is Satan, Yemen is in Africa and Saddam Hussein was a religious fundamentalist.

If people over 40 cared what the media said they would all kill themselves for being too old to be in a perfume advert.

Why are you angry at your boyfriend for something the media didn't in fact do?

All the premises to your emotional concern are false and even if they weren't the conclusion would still be wrong! It makes no sense.

Last edited by elfabyanos on 11 Feb 2013, 11:41 am, edited 1 time in total.

24 pages talking about this girl's boobs..........

And?

I'm not surprised or anything. Boobies are one of my favorite subjects too.........

The attention seeking is also becoming more and more clear and it's starting to annoy me. How many times has the OP said the same absurd thing over and over about her body? She's made several threads about this and no matter how much we fawn over her nonexistant issue she continues to say the same thing. There are people in this board with real problems that don't get this kind of attention.

^^^^^^^^^^THIS.