Dating & relationship success survey for WOMEN
Age: 45 years and 6 months
Relationship status: Single/in a relationship/married or defacto/divorced or separated/widowed
Age when you had your first relationship: 11 years and 4 months
Number of relationships you've had (including online ones): ? Not sure. No purely online ones. I'm going to say about 15.
How long did each relationship last (in years and months)?: Most lasted a few weeks only. I had one six year relationship and my marriage lasted 3 1/2 years.
Number of physical dates you've been on: ? This is a toughie. I'm going to say about 300, but it all depends on your definition of "date". First dates, more like 150.
How many of the above dates progressed to a relationship?: 2
Are you a virgin? (bold applicable): Yes/No
Age when you lost your virginity (in years and months. If you're a virgin put "NA"):
17 years and 0 months
Number of sexual partners you've had: Heh. Too many to remember, and why would I bother counting? It's not something I think should be counted, by anyone. Experiences are experiences. Some are many-year, some are one-night.
Bwah! It's true that in my earlier days a lot of people approached me because of my physical attributes, but never anyone who actually *knew* me. I had no boyfriends in high school or college, for example, just a lot of encounters that didn't pan out. I was much too weird. {Shrug} It was disheartening at the time, but I know so much more about myself now.
To be fair, I get bored easily, too, but I'm extraordinarily loyal. If I've committed to working on something, I'll work on it a lot unless it seems absolutely untenable for some reason.
Bwah! It's true that in my earlier days a lot of people approached me because of my physical attributes, but never anyone who actually *knew* me. I had no boyfriends in high school or college, for example, just a lot of encounters that didn't pan out. I was much too weird. {Shrug} It was disheartening at the time, but I know so much more about myself now.
To be fair, I get bored easily, too, but I'm extraordinarily loyal. If I've committed to working on something, I'll work on it a lot unless it seems absolutely untenable for some reason.
That's a good approach, not everyone is suited to long term relationships and that's another reason the government should support people who choose not to marry as just as much as people who do marry.
I can't say that I have really had a relationship that has lasted long but plenty of girls have positively commented on my appearance, maybe some of us on the spectrum just aren't suited to it but it's good you have a positive outlook about it.

Catmint
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker

Joined: 27 Dec 2012
Age: 40
Gender: Female
Posts: 50
Location: Exeter, England
I'm having some technical issues with putting things in bold, so apologies for the lack of it in this post.
Age (in years and months): 28 years, 4 months
Relationship status (bold applicable): in a relationship (long-term; not officially engaged but as good as)
Age when you had your first relationship (in years and months. If you're still waiting to have your first put "NA"): 23 years, 4 months
Number of relationships you've had (including online ones): 2
How long did each relationship last (in years and months)?: 9 1/2 weeks; current 2 1/2 years so far (unofficially engaged)
Number of physical dates you've been on: 0 before the start of the relationship
How many of the above dates progressed to a relationship?: (see above)
Are you a virgin? (bold applicable): Yes (Catholic)
Age when you lost your virginity (in years and months. If you're a virgin put "NA"): N/A
Number of sexual partners you've had: 0
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