The_Face_of_Boo
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29 Jun 2013, 4:22 pm
Cafeaulait wrote:
lost561 wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
Kazuki wrote:
Saying that, I doubt many men would give you the time of day based on your personality, maybe based on your looks but that is only shallow attraction and nothing substantial like an emotional connection. I think that's why you will struggle being single, you put too much effort into being skin deep rather than on the emotional connection, emphasizing or relating to others.
I've stopped struggeling with being single a long time ago. I went to a sports club, started volunteering and I've made many friends in the past months. I've even started dating a guy I 3 weeks past. We have a great emotional connection
How tall is he? 6'3?
6´0 and a half
So if he was 100% the same guy but barely 5'8, would you have rejected him?
If some wizard came and made him barely 5'8, would you leave him?
Are those +2" what makes him go from not hot level to hot level?
Most men I know stick with their wives after gaining extra weight due to child birth.
29 Jun 2013, 5:45 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
lost561 wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
Kazuki wrote:
Saying that, I doubt many men would give you the time of day based on your personality, maybe based on your looks but that is only shallow attraction and nothing substantial like an emotional connection. I think that's why you will struggle being single, you put too much effort into being skin deep rather than on the emotional connection, emphasizing or relating to others.
I've stopped struggeling with being single a long time ago. I went to a sports club, started volunteering and I've made many friends in the past months. I've even started dating a guy I 3 weeks past. We have a great emotional connection
How tall is he? 6'3?
6´0 and a half
So if he was 100% the same guy but barely 5'8, would you have rejected him?
If some wizard came and made him barely 5'8, would you leave him?
Are those +2" what makes him go from not hot level to hot level?
Most men I know stick with their wives after gaining extra weight due to child birth.
Yes, I would have rejected him. And that wizard wouldn´t come anyway...
Weight is changeable. But still, there are plenty of men that don´t feel sexually attracted anymore when the woman gains to much weight
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29 Jun 2013, 5:51 pm
Cafeaulait wrote:
lost561 wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
Kazuki wrote:
Saying that, I doubt many men would give you the time of day based on your personality, maybe based on your looks but that is only shallow attraction and nothing substantial like an emotional connection. I think that's why you will struggle being single, you put too much effort into being skin deep rather than on the emotional connection, emphasizing or relating to others.
I've stopped struggeling with being single a long time ago. I went to a sports club, started volunteering and I've made many friends in the past months. I've even started dating a guy I 3 weeks past. We have a great emotional connection
How tall is he? 6'3?
6´0 and a half
Hey that's good for you
I'm kind of interested in this subject at the moment.
Can I know your preference for to tall? Like would be ok dating someone 7 foot. if so 8 foot etc. Have a think about it.
29 Jun 2013, 5:59 pm
MR_BOGAN wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
lost561 wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
Kazuki wrote:
Saying that, I doubt many men would give you the time of day based on your personality, maybe based on your looks but that is only shallow attraction and nothing substantial like an emotional connection. I think that's why you will struggle being single, you put too much effort into being skin deep rather than on the emotional connection, emphasizing or relating to others.
I've stopped struggeling with being single a long time ago. I went to a sports club, started volunteering and I've made many friends in the past months. I've even started dating a guy I 3 weeks past. We have a great emotional connection
How tall is he? 6'3?
6´0 and a half
Hey that's good for you
I'm kind of interested in this subject at the moment.
Can I know your preference for to tall? Like would be ok dating someone 7 foot. if so 8 foot etc. Have a think about it.
Tall men are seen as a social status or prized possession to women. It's almost like the guy that goes and shows off his new BMW M5.. That's what tall men are seen as amongst women. The same can be said about certain types of thin women but I think the tall men thing as a social status thing used by women is much worse IMO then men use it.
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29 Jun 2013, 6:16 pm
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30 Jun 2013, 9:20 am
Cafeaulait wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
lost561 wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
Kazuki wrote:
Saying that, I doubt many men would give you the time of day based on your personality, maybe based on your looks but that is only shallow attraction and nothing substantial like an emotional connection. I think that's why you will struggle being single, you put too much effort into being skin deep rather than on the emotional connection, emphasizing or relating to others.
I've stopped struggeling with being single a long time ago. I went to a sports club, started volunteering and I've made many friends in the past months. I've even started dating a guy I 3 weeks past. We have a great emotional connection
How tall is he? 6'3?
6´0 and a half
So if he was 100% the same guy but barely 5'8, would you have rejected him?
If some wizard came and made him barely 5'8, would you leave him?
Are those +2" what makes him go from not hot level to hot level?
Most men I know stick with their wives after gaining extra weight due to child birth.
Yes, I would have rejected him. And that wizard wouldn´t come anyway...
Weight is changeable. But still, there are plenty of men that don´t feel sexually attracted anymore when the woman gains to much weight
Damn.
What would you have told him?
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30 Jun 2013, 9:30 am
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30 Jun 2013, 12:00 pm
Cafeaulait wrote:
lost561 wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
Kazuki wrote:
Saying that, I doubt many men would give you the time of day based on your personality, maybe based on your looks but that is only shallow attraction and nothing substantial like an emotional connection. I think that's why you will struggle being single, you put too much effort into being skin deep rather than on the emotional connection, emphasizing or relating to others.
I've stopped struggeling with being single a long time ago. I went to a sports club, started volunteering and I've made many friends in the past months. I've even started dating a guy I 3 weeks past. We have a great emotional connection
How tall is he? 6'3?
6´0 and a half
You're in Holland? That's barely average.
In all seriousness though, congratulations
Though, at 5'4, I likely would have rejected you being 6'2. I like 5'8 and above. Now are you going to call me shallow?
30 Jun 2013, 5:42 pm
Cafeaulait wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
lost561 wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
Kazuki wrote:
Saying that, I doubt many men would give you the time of day based on your personality, maybe based on your looks but that is only shallow attraction and nothing substantial like an emotional connection. I think that's why you will struggle being single, you put too much effort into being skin deep rather than on the emotional connection, emphasizing or relating to others.
I've stopped struggeling with being single a long time ago. I went to a sports club, started volunteering and I've made many friends in the past months. I've even started dating a guy I 3 weeks past. We have a great emotional connection
How tall is he? 6'3?
6´0 and a half
So if he was 100% the same guy but barely 5'8, would you have rejected him?
If some wizard came and made him barely 5'8, would you leave him?
Are those +2" what makes him go from not hot level to hot level?
Most men I know stick with their wives after gaining extra weight due to child birth.
Yes, I would have rejected him. And that wizard wouldn´t come anyway...
Weight is changeable. But still, there are plenty of men that don´t feel sexually attracted anymore when the woman gains to much weight
Weight is changeable however height isn't so you are discriminating against someone's genetics. If you were to say you wouldn't date a black person because you prefer white people, that would make you skin deep. Again you're a skin deep person and you think you can get what you want because of your looks alone. You need to step back and realize that it might be the case with some guys but don't let it go to your head.
30 Jun 2013, 6:10 pm
Tyri0n wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
lost561 wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
Kazuki wrote:
Saying that, I doubt many men would give you the time of day based on your personality, maybe based on your looks but that is only shallow attraction and nothing substantial like an emotional connection. I think that's why you will struggle being single, you put too much effort into being skin deep rather than on the emotional connection, emphasizing or relating to others.
I've stopped struggeling with being single a long time ago. I went to a sports club, started volunteering and I've made many friends in the past months. I've even started dating a guy I 3 weeks past. We have a great emotional connection
How tall is he? 6'3?
6´0 and a half
You're in Holland? That's barely average.
In all seriousness though, congratulations
Though, at 5'4, I likely would have rejected you being 6'2. I like 5'8 and above. Now are you going to call me shallow? No, if you would have acted intelligently and read my previous post you would have seen that I wouldn´t mind being rejected by someone for my height. So, I honestly don´t care that you would´ve rejected me.
6´0-6'1 is average in the Netherlands.
30 Jun 2013, 6:11 pm
Kazuki wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
lost561 wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
Kazuki wrote:
Saying that, I doubt many men would give you the time of day based on your personality, maybe based on your looks but that is only shallow attraction and nothing substantial like an emotional connection. I think that's why you will struggle being single, you put too much effort into being skin deep rather than on the emotional connection, emphasizing or relating to others.
I've stopped struggeling with being single a long time ago. I went to a sports club, started volunteering and I've made many friends in the past months. I've even started dating a guy I 3 weeks past. We have a great emotional connection
How tall is he? 6'3?
6´0 and a half
So if he was 100% the same guy but barely 5'8, would you have rejected him?
If some wizard came and made him barely 5'8, would you leave him?
Are those +2" what makes him go from not hot level to hot level?
Most men I know stick with their wives after gaining extra weight due to child birth.
Yes, I would have rejected him. And that wizard wouldn´t come anyway...
Weight is changeable. But still, there are plenty of men that don´t feel sexually attracted anymore when the woman gains to much weight
Weight is changeable however height isn't so you are discriminating against someone's genetics. If you were to say you wouldn't date a black person because you prefer white people, that would make you skin deep. Again you're a skin deep person and you think you can get what you want because of your looks alone. You need to step back and realize that it might be the case with some guys but don't let it go to your head.
Jep, I'm also gender deep. Also has to do with genetics. You know, XY chromosomes and such
02 Jul 2013, 8:43 pm
I'm one of the few guys here that find larger women attractive. 
I've dated several over 300 lbs. I just want one that can still walk OK so I would prefer one not that big. I don't care about fertility issues because I don't want kids and prefer a woman that doesn't have any.
03 Jul 2013, 1:54 pm
Cafeaulait wrote:
Kazuki wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
lost561 wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
Kazuki wrote:
Saying that, I doubt many men would give you the time of day based on your personality, maybe based on your looks but that is only shallow attraction and nothing substantial like an emotional connection. I think that's why you will struggle being single, you put too much effort into being skin deep rather than on the emotional connection, emphasizing or relating to others.
I've stopped struggeling with being single a long time ago. I went to a sports club, started volunteering and I've made many friends in the past months. I've even started dating a guy I 3 weeks past. We have a great emotional connection
How tall is he? 6'3?
6´0 and a half
So if he was 100% the same guy but barely 5'8, would you have rejected him?
If some wizard came and made him barely 5'8, would you leave him?
Are those +2" what makes him go from not hot level to hot level?
Most men I know stick with their wives after gaining extra weight due to child birth.
Yes, I would have rejected him. And that wizard wouldn´t come anyway...
Weight is changeable. But still, there are plenty of men that don´t feel sexually attracted anymore when the woman gains to much weight
Weight is changeable however height isn't so you are discriminating against someone's genetics. If you were to say you wouldn't date a black person because you prefer white people, that would make you skin deep. Again you're a skin deep person and you think you can get what you want because of your looks alone. You need to step back and realize that it might be the case with some guys but don't let it go to your head.
Jep, I'm also gender deep. Also has to do with genetics. You know, XY chromosomes and such
Androgens are only 10% of the equation. A crucial part is how growth hormones affect your proportions.
04 Jul 2013, 1:34 pm
Cafeaulait wrote:
Kazuki wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
lost561 wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
Kazuki wrote:
Saying that, I doubt many men would give you the time of day based on your personality, maybe based on your looks but that is only shallow attraction and nothing substantial like an emotional connection. I think that's why you will struggle being single, you put too much effort into being skin deep rather than on the emotional connection, emphasizing or relating to others.
I've stopped struggeling with being single a long time ago. I went to a sports club, started volunteering and I've made many friends in the past months. I've even started dating a guy I 3 weeks past. We have a great emotional connection
How tall is he? 6'3?
6´0 and a half
So if he was 100% the same guy but barely 5'8, would you have rejected him?
If some wizard came and made him barely 5'8, would you leave him?
Are those +2" what makes him go from not hot level to hot level?
Most men I know stick with their wives after gaining extra weight due to child birth.
Yes, I would have rejected him. And that wizard wouldn´t come anyway...
Weight is changeable. But still, there are plenty of men that don´t feel sexually attracted anymore when the woman gains to much weight
Weight is changeable however height isn't so you are discriminating against someone's genetics. If you were to say you wouldn't date a black person because you prefer white people, that would make you skin deep. Again you're a skin deep person and you think you can get what you want because of your looks alone. You need to step back and realize that it might be the case with some guys but don't let it go to your head.
Jep, I'm also gender deep. Also has to do with genetics. You know, XY chromosomes and such
It's up to you how shallow you want to be, don't let it go to your head though and people like you shouldn't have kids if you are going to base your love on what sex or gender you are, you should love a child regardless of how or who they are.
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04 Jul 2013, 1:39 pm
04 Jul 2013, 2:11 pm
Kazuki wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
Kazuki wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
lost561 wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
Kazuki wrote:
Saying that, I doubt many men would give you the time of day based on your personality, maybe based on your looks but that is only shallow attraction and nothing substantial like an emotional connection. I think that's why you will struggle being single, you put too much effort into being skin deep rather than on the emotional connection, emphasizing or relating to others.
I've stopped struggeling with being single a long time ago. I went to a sports club, started volunteering and I've made many friends in the past months. I've even started dating a guy I 3 weeks past. We have a great emotional connection
How tall is he? 6'3?
6´0 and a half
So if he was 100% the same guy but barely 5'8, would you have rejected him?
If some wizard came and made him barely 5'8, would you leave him?
Are those +2" what makes him go from not hot level to hot level?
Most men I know stick with their wives after gaining extra weight due to child birth.
Yes, I would have rejected him. And that wizard wouldn´t come anyway...
Weight is changeable. But still, there are plenty of men that don´t feel sexually attracted anymore when the woman gains to much weight
Weight is changeable however height isn't so you are discriminating against someone's genetics. If you were to say you wouldn't date a black person because you prefer white people, that would make you skin deep. Again you're a skin deep person and you think you can get what you want because of your looks alone. You need to step back and realize that it might be the case with some guys but don't let it go to your head.
Jep, I'm also gender deep. Also has to do with genetics. You know, XY chromosomes and such
It's up to you how shallow you want to be, don't let it go to your head though and people like you shouldn't have kids if you are going to base your love on what sex or gender you are, you should love a child regardless of how or who they are.
Lol, so now I´m not even allowed to be straight? Pawease.
Also, my sexual preferences have nothing to with 'love a child regardless of who they are'.
