am I a pua

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Just as an aside: "pua" is the Thai word for "boyfriend."

Please, sir, for the love of God, don't turn into one of these "NICE GUYS FINISH LAST!" toolbags!

That's harassment, especially if you're hitting on women far younger than you. Stop thinking that being a "pick up artist" is cool in any way. It's not - it's misogynistic and creepy. Your lines are really gross (and also really stupid)
For the love of god, stop it. Try being respectful and not a d-bag.

You are not a pick-up artist. Your strategy doesn't sound like the strategy that a pick-up artist would use.

Honestly, the thing I have found most successful is to approach women who show signs that they are attracted to you. If they are attracted to you, you don't necessarily have to use pick up lines. All you have to do is smile and be polite and just ask them out. My advice from personal experience use those sort of lines jokingly is that most women don't get it. They get offended. You can turn a women who is interested into one who thinks you are a jerk.

Another thing is to ask out as many available women as possible. Chance are one of them will say yes. The key word is available. If you are 30 and these girls are college-age and hot, chances are they are not available to you. Sorry. They are probably looking for some popular college guy to go out with. Who are some women who would like to go out with a guy your age? Do you have kids? What are your interests? What do you like to do for fun?

Oh yeah, you sound like a total ladies' man...you must have women drooling and lining up to date you. I'll bet you're drowning in p*ssy, can't fight them off fast enough. Definitely a pick-up artist, I'm already in love with you.

Drowning in p****....

pua in his case stands for P*ssy Ultra Avalanche. Sounds legit.

Would the life jacket you use to prevent drowning in p**** be a Comicon tshirt?

This is far worse.

Ladies at the bar or parties expect to get hit on. As stupid as it is, that's PUA behavior.

College girls at the gym or local supermarket don't (especially by some random dude 10 years older than them.) What you're doing isn't PUA tactics. it's creeper behavior at best, harrassment at worst. I'd be surprised if you didn't already have a reputation. Hopefully your lady friend from work doesn't find out what you've been doing.

''you like winners,cuz Im a winner''
''hey,Im standing up straight,that shows confidence,
how about you date me''
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''you look alot like taylor swift''




What a fridged b***h..........

Well if you walk around saying things like that to every single woman you meet, you're bound to be successful at some point.

Them's just the odds.

At least he hasn't tried "Good thing I've got my library card, cause I'm checking you out!"

Yet, anyway.

ETA; Although I would have to say that the best pickup line to use at an AS convention might be "Talk nerdy to me!" - you know, cause of the nerd stereotype. Or you could use it at an IT convention, a Star Trek convention, etc. An IT girl I knew once told it to me.

I just want to stop you before you ruin your chances with yet another woman. Cheesy pick up lines are never going to get you a date. Women aren't looking to be conned, they want an honest man who will be there for them and love them. Just be yourself and you might find actually find someone. If you are sincere with them they will respect that.

PUA is a joke. It does NOT work, it never has and it never will. Any woman worth dating isn't going to be fooled by this, so you are better off giving the PUA thing up.

Look for someone your age. Someone who seems interested in you. Be polite and keep the conversation focused on her. Chivalry really works with women. Hold the door open for your date, pay for the meal, give her compliments. keep your eyes on her face, never lower (i.e. the breasts), you look down there you are done before you start.
as far as compliments go, be specific. tell her how beautiful her hair is, tell her what you like about her, etc. Be a gentleman, and you are bound to find the right woman.
hope this helps

Got to disagree with you there -- PUA does work, and there are certain 'rules of behaviour' that will tend to get such men the result they want -- which is not, in most cases, a fulfilling personal relationship.

It goes a bit further than approaching some random woman with a pathetic chat-up line though, which is what OP is doing.

There are entire subcultures devoted to PUA, and some of their rules can be found in the following book:

http://www.amazon.co.uk/The-Game-Underc ... 184767237X

I'm not saying this is A Good Thing, or A Bad Thing, it's just a Thing.

I wouldn't personally bother with it, but others may get some degree of personal fulfilment out of it.