Peacesells wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
Peacesells wrote:
And he knows it and is fine with it, sounds like he wants a hot maid with benefits rather than a loving partner.
Maybe she can do those things and love me too. Would she not love the man who rescued her from poverty?
You never even met her and you've known her for a short time, and you two were talking about marriage. Come on dude...
To be fair I talked about marriage with Mei La a very short time after I met her and I was dating her, as in we lived in the same city and saw each other IRL. Mei La actually got a lot more interested in me after I said I would marry her and this made me think that maybe commitment was an aphrodisiac for some women.
And when I asked if a woman would love me for rescuing me from poverty, I wasn't referring to Mary specifically, just third world women in general, which ever one I end up with.
Juggynaut wrote:
She seems to be acting pretty suspicious behavior that, at least to me, drips with the term "Gold Digger". You know, how she was so eager to marry you. How she keeps emphasizing that she loves you. How she follows your every whim. How her proclamations of love seem devoid of passion. Even if she isn't in it for the money, these things suggests she has an alterior motive. You implied that she's more mature than you, so it seems doubtful to me that she is doing it all out of blind love, as that sort of thing fades with maturity.
You are right, Mary was passionless and said she wanted to marry me within hours of contacting me.
Michelle took about two months to go from friendship to wanting a relationship with me and afterwards she sounded
muuuch more passionate about it than Mary.
I don't mean passionate in a lustful way, the love-starved Michelle kept saying she needed to be hugged and kissed but said she had little interest in sex. Mary talked about sex a lot, usually she was the one who brought it up, either because she's a nymphomaniac or more likely because she thought it would appeal to me.
I suspect Michelle was a demisexual, since after a certain point she went from being anti-sex to being pro-sex.
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