The irrational standards women have toward men

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Because scent, even imperceptible scent such as pheromones, is important to women in mate selection. There have been various studies on this.

Somewhat off topic but I used to have a lab partner who looked like Mario Lopez and was probably the first 10 to ever talk to me, but his breath was so horrible I didn’t want to be near him.

Interesting. I appreciate the clarification.

Yes, there's definitely a disconnect between the level of effort required for men vs. women to accumulate a large number of sexual partners. I have noted that many people put extra effort and attention into getting things that are more difficult for them to acquire, and sometimes wonder if the general perception that men want more sex/have a greater libido than women is due at least in part to that disparity. (If other words, in a society where men and women experienced sexual equality with regard to available partners and initiation of encounters, would men still want more sex than women?) I digress.

So if I understand you correctly, you're saying the reason men admire and envy other men who are more successful sexually is because of the awareness that they've had to work harder for it, while the same number of encounters is relatively easy for women to achieve and therefore not deserving of the same admiration. Yes?

Yep, you pretty much hit the nail on it's head.

I'm telling you, I read some of these threads just for pure entertainment. I am truly abnormal. What I've noticed though, is that a lot of people tend to get over their sexual issues in time and find satisfaction, so for those that are having issues, there's hope in that. But it is a bit humorous watching them get to that point. And you know how I know they've gotten to that point of satisfaction? They come here and observe the entertainment just like I do...yes, finding a happy place for your sexuality makes you behave like an asexual, lol. Why do you think there are so many happy married couples not having sex?

A woman who enjoys sex with many partners isn't simply dismissed because it's easy for her to achieve that activity. She is looked down on and reviled. She is insulted. She's a whore, a slut, a slag, not fit to meet a man's parents, not fit to be a wife, on and on it goes. This shrieking and clutching of pearls is heaped on her by both men and women.

Why? Most men like sex so why don't men like women who are more likely to give them sex?

What’s their background?

Most my coworkers have gf and wife’s. Half are young people going to college(jobs just extra income to put them through college, college = well paid future job, often women say eithe rhave wellmpaid job or be in college meaning college is just as good as well paid job because society says that’s what college leads to)
The other half are older people who have other full time jobs or are retired working this job for the extra money and discounts.

How many people,working low paid jobs are in college? It’s quite common. It’s why low paid jobs have high turn over. Most will graduate college and find better jobs then the next wave of college students will be hired. The few who don’t are people like me. And they single like me. Unless their women, there’s a few women who have well off bfs who pick them up or bought them a nice new car. They work to get discounts for their husband and extra income. There’s really not a lot of permanent low paid employees who’ve been in the same low paid job for 5-10 years who have relationships or are married. Unless they have other jobs or are just earning extra income in women’s case.
Litterally all the guys at my work are either college students or men in their 60+ besides the managers in their 40/50 but they get paid a lot more. They have degrees and experience this is their well paid job.

So how many of your fell employees are 27-40 old college failures who’ve been working min wage for 5-20 years and have gf and wives? Or how many are young college students with a future? Cause it amazes a huge difference to women finding them dateable vs seeing them as a loser.

Female coworkers rejected me but then partnered up with he college students. And they all leave eventually to better jobs.

It's threads like this that make me feel lucky to be asexual.

So far, so good. What's missing in your interpretation, as far as I can tell, is the moral outrage that accompanies judgement of women who are sexually promiscuous.

A woman who enjoys sex with many partners isn't simply dismissed because it's easy for her to achieve that activity. She is looked down on and reviled. She is insulted. She's a whore, a slut, a slag, not fit to meet a man's parents, not fit to be a wife, on and on it goes. This shrieking and clutching of pearls is heaped on her by both men and women.

Yes, in the modern day we're more aware of the risks associated with sexual promiscuity, and I'm aware there's at least a fringe element beginning to judge men for this behavior as well - but there is not, nor has there been, any sort of parity in this arena.

I don’t think anyone is saying looks don’t matter. It, however, still does not explain the fact socially normal fat short and bald men still have plenty of luck. For men who are average looking, personality and confidence is everything, and they do get success.

What do you want people here to do? Tell you to get plastic surgery?

Do you not understand? Men can be racist or mysoginistic as long as they are good looking women will have sex with them. Women have secret rape fantasies and are okay being dominated by invasive species (economic migrant crisis). They have no loyalty to the tribe. It's the beta males who don't get away with anything. It's a form of control over average men.

Feminism is about controlling men!

Wake up.

How old are you?
A lot of younger girls are what my generation would call sluts, but for their generation it’s normal and cool. They brag about it to each other. I think slut will become a good word in their generation or the next. Words tend to do thst generation to generation. Being sexual promiscuous is cool for them. Ok for my generation and shunned by my parents generation. The baby boomers would send them to camps to be re-educated.

What I don’t get and is confusing is parents who tell their boys to go sleep around but forbit their daughters. Don’t they realize those girls are someone else’s daughters and someone else’s boy is being told to sleep with their daughter? And a saying I heard sleep around with sluts and get it out of your system but settle down with a good girl. Like wtf for real. That’s terrible advice or saying.

Do you not understand? Men can be racist or mysoginistic as long as they are good looking women will have sex with them. Women have secret rape fantasies and are okay being dominated by invasive species (economic migrant crisis). They have no loyalty to the tribe. It's the beta males who don't get away with anything. It's a form of control over average men.

Feminism is about controlling men!

Wake up.

Gosh, Sid, thanks so much for mansplaining that for me. (sarcasm)

Feminism, speaking as a feminist, is about no longer allowing men to control women.