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Escape1894
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18 Nov 2024, 11:33 pm

Have you ever had someone who had romantic interest with you? A crush to put it in more simple terms. If so, what was it like? I (30M, straight) have never had a woman give me any sort of hints of romantic interest with me thus have never been in a relationship and date. The whole thing is very frustrating to me but at the end of the day, I just simply shrug my shoulders and move on.

So what’s it like to have someone be attracted to you?



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25 Nov 2024, 2:32 pm

Are you sure that no one has shown interest in you or could it be that you just didn't realize it?

As for me, I don't know that I've ever been "chased" but my current boyfriend did show interest in me when I showed interest in him. I think I was first.



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25 Nov 2024, 4:56 pm

I have had that happen. It was nice for a while. At first I wondered what is wrong with this person that they are attracted to me when no one else is. It was nice to know that someone found value in you. I hope this happens to you as well.



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10 Dec 2024, 9:25 pm

bee33 wrote:
Are you sure that no one has shown interest in you or could it be that you just didn't realize it?


Yeah I’m sure no one shown interest. There were never any hints/cue’s that told me otherwise. It is what it is.



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13 Dec 2024, 11:13 am

I've experienced that maybe twice. Both were online & became my girlfriends. I'm not sure if the first counts or not because were were best friends for a while before she told me she liked me. The other followed my posts for a while & then PMed me. We've been living together for 12 years now. I was very lonely & majorly hated being single & I get obsessed & like spending lots of time with my partner so I think it's extremely great for a woman to have a crush on me. I find it very cute when I watch an anime show & there's a lovesick girl fawning all over a guy.


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