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07 Jul 2025, 12:13 pm

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You know why

Beer goggles? :lol:

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07 Jul 2025, 12:14 pm

:lol: I didn't say that

Do you think sometimes your friends are having banter with you

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07 Jul 2025, 12:22 pm

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:lol: I didn't say that

Do you think sometimes your friends are having banter with you

My friend just texted me saying "She might not remember you if she was drunk"

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07 Jul 2025, 12:31 pm

And was she drunk

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07 Jul 2025, 12:48 pm

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And was she drunk

Could not tell

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07 Jul 2025, 12:50 pm

Did you have a good night out in London

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07 Jul 2025, 12:55 pm

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Did you have a good night out in London

Yeah it was really good

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07 Jul 2025, 1:23 pm

And you met a nice woman who you spent the evening with as well and enjoyed each others company

I'd say that is a good night

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09 Jul 2025, 12:12 pm

Last night this 20 year old woman said to me and my friends "I am not touching him (me)"

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09 Jul 2025, 12:14 pm

Why did she say that

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09 Jul 2025, 12:24 pm

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Why did she say that

I think my friends were encouraging her to flirt with me

How would you interpret "I am not touching him?"

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09 Jul 2025, 12:29 pm

Jamesy wrote:

babybird wrote:

Why did she say that

I think my friends were encouraging her to flirt with me

How would you interpret "I am not touching him?"

Sounds like an expression of disinterest, unless she was just roasting you.

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09 Jul 2025, 12:45 pm

Jamesy wrote:

babybird wrote:

Why did she say that

I think my friends were encouraging her to flirt with me

How would you interpret "I am not touching him?"

I would interpret it as "I'm not touching him"

I don't really see any double meanings there lad

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09 Jul 2025, 12:45 pm

She probably thought I was ugly

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09 Jul 2025, 12:49 pm

"I am not touching him" can also mean the same as "I wouldn't go near him" (in a romantic sense).

I have heard it used that way.

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09 Jul 2025, 12:56 pm

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She probably thought I was ugly

Not necessarily
It's hard to know what she meant

I'm kind of thinking it was more a case of her standing up for herself

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