hermit wrote:
quietangel,
I'm not entirely sure what you mean. Affection how? Since it's a bf/gf question it could mean a few things... I guess I'll answer the variations that come to mind.
1. PDA's are out. If you want to see a great turtle imitation this'll do it.
2. If it's just the two of us and we're sitting around, for example, sometimes. I do like to communicate to my partner/ receive in some way that things are ok between us. That's more important than the touching, which is a form of communication. I just want the communication to exist so I'm not in the dark. Hope that makes sense. But I do like to be physical sometimes, see below, and also the mature part.
3. I do like massages with partners... don't know if that's affection as much as a massage I feel comfortable receiving...
4. A kiss hello/goodbye is unnecessary. It's physical small talk. Unless It's going to be a while until I see said gf.
Thinking about this as I write, my answer is: no affection unless the libido is somehow involved or it's a massage.
that was a great honest answer.
But, dont you ever let your fingers do the walking, and give a massage?