my female friend kissed me today

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billiscool
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12 Nov 2013, 8:57 pm

today,when I was giving my female friend(co-worker)
our goodbye hug,she kissed me on the lips,
and she was very flirty,and I said we should hang
out sometimes and she said ''yeah''that be good.

good day.



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12 Nov 2013, 9:08 pm

If there is any advice i can give you is to go slow, i know this act of affection is good and feels good for the soul, however in my opinion it is a little random. Have you been able to do proper judgement of her?. I'm not trying to scare you but the one's that act in this kind of way in the early stages are usually ones who end up as no-goers. I know from things that my Friends and Acquaintances have told me, about certain people.

In all honesty i hope it works out, but go slow.



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12 Nov 2013, 9:53 pm

The OP has mentioned in a few other posts about this female being flirtly and friendly towards him.

Why don't you invite her out for dinner or a drink? Make sure to pay though so she knows it's a date.



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12 Nov 2013, 10:32 pm

And take a condom. Maybe two.


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13 Nov 2013, 12:43 am

OP is lucky man. I hope he plays his cards right to "happily ever after."



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13 Nov 2013, 1:10 am

auntblabby wrote:
OP is lucky man. I hope he plays his cards right to "happily ever after."


yep,and she approach me,and did all the first moves.
btw she's not nt,she either has autism
or a learning disability,she very similiar to me.



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13 Nov 2013, 1:51 am

billiscool wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
OP is lucky man. I hope he plays his cards right to "happily ever after."


yep,and she approach me,and did all the first moves.
btw she's not nt,she either has autism
or a learning disability,she very similiar to me.

god I hope you two can be together a good long time, I hope you can make each other happier. make her feel loved as she's never been loved before. that is just my sentimental self speaking. :oops:



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13 Nov 2013, 2:09 am

Glowz44 wrote:
If there is any advice i can give you is to go slow, i know this act of affection is good and feels good for the soul, however in my opinion it is a little random. Have you been able to do proper judgement of her?. I'm not trying to scare you but the one's that act in this kind of way in the early stages are usually ones who end up as no-goers. I know from things that my Friends and Acquaintances have told me, about certain people.

In all honesty i hope it works out, but go slow.



I disagree, don't slow down.



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13 Nov 2013, 2:10 am

you're a lucky man. I'd give anything for my female best friend to kiss me, just once....


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13 Nov 2013, 4:14 am

billiscool wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
OP is lucky man. I hope he plays his cards right to "happily ever after."


yep,and she approach me,and did all the first moves.
btw she's not nt,she either has autism
or a learning disability,she very similiar to me.


Do you find her attractive as well?



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13 Nov 2013, 4:41 am

Did you use any of your pua lines?



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13 Nov 2013, 10:19 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Did you use any of your pua lines?


nope,she approach me,and does most of the talking.



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13 Nov 2013, 11:13 am

Thank goodness for that then! :lol:

No point in going slow if you both want to get on with it.



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13 Nov 2013, 11:13 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Did you use any of your pua lines?

Silly question.



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13 Nov 2013, 10:36 pm

well,today she gave me her cell number and her address.
she basically a quasi-girlfriend at this point.
she's not offically my girlfriend.



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13 Nov 2013, 10:43 pm

billiscool wrote:
well,today she gave me her cell number and her address. she basically a quasi-girlfriend at this point. she's not offically my girlfriend.

what would it take for her to win your boyfriendship?