I feel like the luckiest man alive.

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I'm gonna keep the long story short:
Seeing and hanging out with this new lady friend for a while. There had been some confusion on both of our parts. Last night we talk over dinner and clear this confusion. She asks me what I want and I say "I know that I want you and a chance." The response I got to that was she wanted to as well.

I didn't wait for her, I went with what I wanted.

Way to go!

Don't screw it up.

Congratulations! I hope you guys find a way to make it work (and keep it working) and that your experience and perspective that you have will also be able to help and encourage others in this forum.

Awesome! I am so happy things are going your way.

Congratulations! I hope things go well for you.

Any updates on this?

Yay!! ! Well done!

It's been only one day! What kind of update are you looking for?

I've noticed stuff like this happening to aspie guys like us often doesn't turn out to be that pink coloured if you know what I mean?

Awesome!! I love my Aspie guy! I hope it works out for you both.

I'm just trying to figure out which kind of love she responds best to. I'm sure quality time is something she enjoys... lets face it, we all enjoy it. However, I'm sensing she is responding better to words that affirm that I like her and want to be with her. So I have been working on trying to compliment her at least once each time I see her and tell her thank you for the nights we spend time together. So far it seems to be working.. even before we officially started dating.

It sounds like you are doing a wonderful job! My fiancé is the same way. He is so sweet and loving and I love it!

Update:

We've been out a few times and things appeared to be going well. We went out Tuesday for a movie. Things seemed ok. Yesterday I give her a message before she usually does saying "Hey, just wanted to say Good morning, hope you have a good day " She had been doing this with me as well for the most part. I didn't receive a message until bed time. The words read "Hey, My day was good. Hope yours was as well. I've been busy. Sleep Tight."

The "busy" word thrown in there which is usually an indicator that says "I don't want to talk to you". Yeah. I don't know if I will respond to that. What I know there is that I wont bother replying to it. I will now refer to myself as single and available.

^ Too early to conclude that, don't panic.

Are they married yet? The OP needs to step it up!

Agree. Way too early to conclude that.

ETA: Also the busy was probably included as an explanation as to why the response took so long. Most likely to make it so you don't think what you're thinking.