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goldfish21
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21 Jun 2014, 6:13 pm
I'd say you're pretty well normal for a 21 year old guy.
cathylynn wrote:
mature would be valuing personality over looks altogether.
Says who?
I've never heard of any magical age where one matures or evolves what they're attracted to in a potential partner to not include aesthetics & only focus on personality. That's because this does not happen. Some people may change what they're attracted to, others won't. But there is no such rules that says maturity in attraction = valuing personality. Either you value personality more than looks or you don't. If there were such a rule in existence guys like Hugh Hefner would have changed to be attracted to the most ideal personalities to suit his tastes vs. surrounding himself with the physical bodies he's attracted to. Last I checked he's still surrounded by playboy bunnies.
Therefor your post is.. ridiculous.
Some people are attracted to certain aesthetic features and will always be that way, others not, but there is no sort of rule amongst humans that dictates that as people grow chronologically older that their tastes in others change from liking physical features to appreciating personality types. That's just nuts to believe so.
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goldfish21
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21 Jun 2014, 10:15 pm
hale_bopp wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
I'd say you're pretty well normal for a 21 year old guy.
Says who?
I've never heard of any magical age where one matures or evolves what they're attracted to in a potential partner to not include aesthetics & only focus on personality. That's because this does not happen. Some people may change what they're attracted to, others won't. But there is no such rules that says maturity in attraction = valuing personality. Either you value personality more than looks or you don't. If there were such a rule in existence guys like Hugh Hefner would have changed to be attracted to the most ideal personalities to suit his tastes vs. surrounding himself with the physical bodies he's attracted to. Last I checked he's still surrounded by playboy bunnies.
Therefor your post is.. ridiculous.
Some people are attracted to certain aesthetic features and will always be that way, others not, but there is no sort of rule amongst humans that dictates that as people grow chronologically older that their tastes in others change from liking physical features to appreciating personality types. That's just nuts to believe so.
cathylynn wrote:
mature would be valuing personality over looks altogether.
Says who?
I've never heard of any magical age where one matures or evolves what they're attracted to in a potential partner to not include aesthetics & only focus on personality. That's because this does not happen. Some people may change what they're attracted to, others won't. But there is no such rules that says maturity in attraction = valuing personality. Either you value personality more than looks or you don't. If there were such a rule in existence guys like Hugh Hefner would have changed to be attracted to the most ideal personalities to suit his tastes vs. surrounding himself with the physical bodies he's attracted to. Last I checked he's still surrounded by playboy bunnies.
Therefor your post is.. ridiculous.
Some people are attracted to certain aesthetic features and will always be that way, others not, but there is no sort of rule amongst humans that dictates that as people grow chronologically older that their tastes in others change from liking physical features to appreciating personality types. That's just nuts to believe so.
Pretty sure the guts of what that poster meant was there is more to people than tits 'n arse.
If they did mean that then you'd think they would have said so, no?
Instead they said what they wrote above, implying that as people mature they shift from being attracted to looks to being attracted to personality... and that's just straight up BS.
Sure, I'm attracted to the whole package of a person vs. looks alone, but I can't imagine ever not being attracted to looks and shifting to being attracted to personality above looks. I can't imagine growing older and looking at guys thinking "I wonder if he has a personality I'd be attracted to?" No. I'll do the same thing I've always done, see a guy I'm attracted to and think, "Cute."
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21 Jun 2014, 10:30 pm
cathylynn wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
I'd say you're pretty well normal for a 21 year old guy.
Says who?
I've never heard of any magical age where one matures or evolves what they're attracted to in a potential partner to not include aesthetics & only focus on personality. That's because this does not happen. Some people may change what they're attracted to, others won't. But there is no such rules that says maturity in attraction = valuing personality. Either you value personality more than looks or you don't. If there were such a rule in existence guys like Hugh Hefner would have changed to be attracted to the most ideal personalities to suit his tastes vs. surrounding himself with the physical bodies he's attracted to. Last I checked he's still surrounded by playboy bunnies.
Therefor your post is.. ridiculous.
Some people are attracted to certain aesthetic features and will always be that way, others not, but there is no sort of rule amongst humans that dictates that as people grow chronologically older that their tastes in others change from liking physical features to appreciating personality types. That's just nuts to believe so.
cathylynn wrote:
mature would be valuing personality over looks altogether.
Says who?
I've never heard of any magical age where one matures or evolves what they're attracted to in a potential partner to not include aesthetics & only focus on personality. That's because this does not happen. Some people may change what they're attracted to, others won't. But there is no such rules that says maturity in attraction = valuing personality. Either you value personality more than looks or you don't. If there were such a rule in existence guys like Hugh Hefner would have changed to be attracted to the most ideal personalities to suit his tastes vs. surrounding himself with the physical bodies he's attracted to. Last I checked he's still surrounded by playboy bunnies.
Therefor your post is.. ridiculous.
Some people are attracted to certain aesthetic features and will always be that way, others not, but there is no sort of rule amongst humans that dictates that as people grow chronologically older that their tastes in others change from liking physical features to appreciating personality types. That's just nuts to believe so.
hugh hefner never grew up. he didn't have to.
Well I suppose you could call Hugh and I kindred Toys "R" Us spirits, then.
Excuse me while I'm off to Never Never Land with Peter & the lost boys while listening to Metallica and air-high-fiving Hugh for picking up another handful of hotties.
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22 Jun 2014, 5:06 am
hale_bopp wrote:
I think you're taking what they said too literally.
LOL most likely, but this should come as no surprise. We are in an Asperger's forum.
OP, from a personal standpoint you don't come across as socially mature. Your tastes might be of a mature nature but that doesn't always mean it makes one a mature person. Someone could have an educated love of wine, but still go to the pub every night racing down drink as fast as they can and spending their whole time thinking about who likes who and who is still their friend.
Would like to add that you have your whole life to be mature and that you shouldn't worry about what a bunch of people like us on some random forum think on the matter
and BTW, curves rule.
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