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22 Dec 2016, 9:58 pm

Okay, this is a really weird question, but I need to know. Here are some various pictures taken of me over the past year. How attractive would you say I am? Handsome? Ugly? Ladies, if you met me, would you be physically attracted to me? I'm not asking out of vanity, I'm just trying to understand how other people see me so I'll know where I stand, I guess.

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22 Dec 2016, 10:46 pm

Brutal honesty:

4/10.

You look completely and totally average (average is GOOD) aside from the fact you appear significantly overwight, though some women like heavier set men.

You dress fine in these pics, though could better.

If you're comfortable with a plain look then don't change.

Too many people ty to dress super fashionable and trendy despite them not feeling comfortable this way and this just makes them less confident or comfortable.

What's your height?

You're not ugly by any means though.

You look like the kind of guy that can have a girlfriend once he meets the right gal and a small close circle of geeky friends.

I define average looking as 4-6 btw with 4 being low average.



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22 Dec 2016, 11:06 pm

I think you're attractive but should lose the beard. I hate beards. Instead you should get one of those awesome twirly mustaches, it would look good with your eyes.



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22 Dec 2016, 11:39 pm

I too am not into beards, but other than that I think you look nice and if I were still as young as I used to be, I would go out with you -- I once dated someone who actually looked a lot like you. I like your smile and you have lovely, twinkly eyes.



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23 Dec 2016, 3:42 am

Gay guy chiming in, because hey, feedback is feedback.

You're not my type but you're certainly not ugly, either. Average or so is a fair assessment. You appear to have decently symmetrical bone structure and healthy skin - good things. Do you have any pics w/o the beard? (I have a beard, but prefer the clean shaven look on others.)

Also, I'd say you were overweight but wouldn't say significantly - although, that's a relative thing.. perhaps Outrider lives where people are quite lean and hasn't really been around the stereotypical obese American body type. Whether you change your facial hair or not, suit yourself & the girls you're seeking to attract, the number one thing you could do to improve your appearance is get into better physical shape. Healthy diet, exercise, plenty of water and proper sleep = you'll slim down, get stronger, look & feel better. Once fit, you have more options for better fitting more attractive clothing. With discipline and hard work you could be looking fitter & feeling better in ~6-12 months, depending on your objectives and level of effort. You'd notice a difference in the first few months, but it takes time to truly get fit and look & feel better. As someone who has done it, it's 100% worth it.


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23 Dec 2016, 4:02 am

Everyone has different preferences, so don't take any answer as gospel.

I like your pics, You have a handsome and engaged quality that conveys as an enjoyment of life. Just be yourself and some lucky lady will find you. :)



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23 Dec 2016, 4:57 am

Your cheeks look so squeezable.

No homo.



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23 Dec 2016, 5:33 am

You're not ugly if you're having some self esteem problem. You could do with going to see a male stylist and get a bit more modern hair do cause the fringe doesn't suit you at all. The beard doesn't really suit you, I think perhaps a bit of stubble would but not like tash stubble, tash doesn't suit you. Otherwise there's nothing to be too concerned about. You really suit grey shirts though. You'd probs look even better if you did some weight lifting and got really healthy cause that's the best thing to do to boost your confidence and overall self esteem.


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23 Dec 2016, 5:51 am

Definitely handsome, esp. with your beard and friendly smile.



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23 Dec 2016, 5:53 am

Definitely not ugly at all.

If im being blunt I think you look best in the last 3 pics. I dont know what it is but in the last 3 your a 7/10 to me. You look like your cuddly and friendly, tbh I you had dark hair and I was single I would flirt with you (just because I have a weird personal preference about dark hair).

I kind of get what people mean about the beard but at the same time some people look better with beards than without. Maybe a trim and a style of the beard

I do think the clothing in the first 2 photos is a bit unflattering but looking at the last 3 I would say you don't need to loose weight. There are a lot of girls who like a guy to be a big bulky.

I agree about the hair a little as well maybe having a little bit of a longer fringe.

So too conclude cuddly and friendly.



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23 Dec 2016, 7:46 am

I think your best pic is the second to the right. You look to be in pretty good shape in that one - not too heavy but not thin either. And you're smiling which is good too.

I would agree with the others - you're definitely not UNattractive. And I happen to think your beard looks fine. But I agree with the other poster in that the fringe isn't a good look.


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23 Dec 2016, 12:34 pm

Outrider wrote:
Brutal honesty:

4/10.

You look completely and totally average (average is GOOD) aside from the fact you appear significantly overwight, though some women like heavier set men.

You dress fine in these pics, though could better.

If you're comfortable with a plain look then don't change.

Too many people ty to dress super fashionable and trendy despite them not feeling comfortable this way and this just makes them less confident or comfortable.

What's your height?

You're not ugly by any means though.

You look like the kind of guy that can have a girlfriend once he meets the right gal and a small close circle of geeky friends.

I define average looking as 4-6 btw with 4 being low average.

I think 4 would be ugly rather than average.



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23 Dec 2016, 1:15 pm

You look good.
No bulbous nose and clear skin.
I also don't think you are overweight but I'm starting to think that maybe I don't really know what is considered overweight these days

And ,no,that's not a wierd question!


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23 Dec 2016, 1:16 pm

Spyoon wrote:
You look good.
No bulbous nose and clear skin.
I also don't think you are overweight but I'm starting to think that maybe I don't really Know what is considered overweight these days


Anything that doesn't have a six-packs is considered overweight these days.



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23 Dec 2016, 2:18 pm

you are not ugly mate. you are average.