What was your longest relationship?

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mickaelx99
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31 Aug 2008, 8:43 pm

Sadly for me, I am currently in my longest one (that's the good thing actually) the bad thing is, I am only about 40 days in, although it is a really awesome relationship. I am just curious to see how long other people with aspergers had their relationship last for.

KingChaosNinja
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31 Aug 2008, 8:48 pm

Approximately 82 days. It was good but it ended suddenly and not so well. She actually broke up with me via text message after I had surgery and was drugged up on painkillers.

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31 Aug 2008, 9:08 pm

Just over 3 years.

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31 Aug 2008, 9:18 pm

My longest relationship was with a past boyfriend :evil: that went over 352 days with two breaks in between, one lasting a week and the other lasting about a month or two. I finally broke off from him the third and last time. :twisted: Good thing I did. The guy was horrible... :evil:
I'm currently in another one that so far has lasted almost nine months. New guy WAY better! I know this relationship will definately surpass the last one. I'm still trying to recover from that :evil: not nice guy.... Luckily, the new guy is helping me recover and he's the best boyfriend I ever had so HA! Take that evil ex boyfriend HA! :twisted:
Sorry, I still bag on him a lot. He wasn't very nice. -Power Girl

Xelebes
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31 Aug 2008, 9:40 pm

A week? Yeah.

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31 Aug 2008, 9:48 pm

Two dates. I ended it because I found it overwhelming and felt I couldn't meet her expectations when she said I need to be able to communicate better. (What did she really mean? Was I really that bad at explaining what I do and why did she want to know all about that anyway?)

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31 Aug 2008, 10:40 pm

About four months.

KenithSobel
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31 Aug 2008, 10:42 pm

About 8 months

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31 Aug 2008, 11:26 pm

In one stint, about three years.

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PowerGirl
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31 Aug 2008, 11:27 pm

OOO! Good for you! I hope my current one lasts that long too. And even longer. He rules! -Power Girl

KingChaosNinja
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31 Aug 2008, 11:31 pm

Wow, I'm really on the low end. I guess I am a lot younger than most people here though.

PowerGirl
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31 Aug 2008, 11:33 pm

That or you just had less sucessful relationships or we were in the dating scene longer. Give or take. -Power Girl

KingChaosNinja
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31 Aug 2008, 11:49 pm

I'm not saying I lack self-esteem but this has been the majority of my relationships.
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31 Aug 2008, 11:52 pm

KingChaosNinja wrote:

Wow, I'm really on the low end.

no, that would be me. i am older and never had a relationship.

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PowerGirl
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31 Aug 2008, 11:52 pm

Happens. Just keep trying and learn when not to give up and when to stop fighting a loosing battle. I think it helps when you both understand each other. Makes things less complicated, I think. -Power Girl

KingChaosNinja
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31 Aug 2008, 11:57 pm

Oh I know trust me. I'm far from jaded. It's just that there is a lot of luck of the draw involved too.

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