I perceive this as a real and a serious problem.
A few years ago I attended a men's health night sponsored by my local community health organisation. A number of reputable and experienced medical practitioners made presentations at this forum.
Current medical opinion is that the typical adult male needs to have sex on average twice a week for physical, mental and emotional well being. (Sorry, don't have equivalent data specifically for aspies nor for females ... someone else might be able to help out here).
They also stated that if one did not have a partner in order to achieve this, one might have to take matters into one's own hands, so to speak. Yes ... I know ... it's really not the same.
Being a buysexual might be another possibility, as in, if you want sex, you have to buy it.
So yes, we can and we do go without for long periods, but it's not healthy. Any females reading this, please take note.
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No person can tell another what to do ... but here is what I think ... (Cheyenne Wisdom)